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Topic: where are the real men at?
Unknow Joined Wed 03/26/08 Posts: 332	Sat 02/08/14 07:17 AM
that's funny but true.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 02/08/14 07:28 AM
I think you may have a sexual hangup if you jump to the conclusion that "Looking for Fun" just means sex. A healthy relationship is fun. The "poor me stuff" you refer to about me is not justified, I didn't start this thread with " Where are the real men". Kic, maybe next time try to read the lines in my profile instead imagining whats between them. Incidently, I told my wife in the first week we met that we would marry one day, I then courted her for a year before we got married, I enjoyed the courtship. You missed the point, that making friends comes long before "Putting PEE PEE IN" as you put it, maybe thats why you are still on Mingle since 2007. You may not like what KIC said but she isn't the only one that sees the "looking for fun" means looking for sex. To you it may mean something else but its how others perceive it. Most women won't give your profile a thorough read if you put the phrase "looking for fun". You may not like that but that is how it is.

hannnie Joined Wed 02/05/14 Posts: 8	Sat 02/08/14 07:32 AM
lol:)haha,i think i wil fly off, to Canada nd find this real men,

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Sat 02/08/14 07:53 AM
sorry, I am in fact a highly trained iguana. Haha. There's a gorilla-poodle and a moose-bear here too. :)

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/08/14 08:22 AM
I think you may have a sexual hangup if you jump to the conclusion that "Looking for Fun" just means sex. A healthy relationship is fun. The "poor me stuff" you refer to about me is not justified, I didn't start this thread with " Where are the real men". Kic, maybe next time try to read the lines in my profile instead imagining whats between them. Incidently, I told my wife in the first week we met that we would marry one day, I then courted her for a year before we got married, I enjoyed the courtship. You missed the point, that making friends comes long before "Putting PEE PEE IN" as you put it, maybe thats why you are still on Mingle since 2007. well I don;t really know about the rest of it, but on here, the internet, guys who say "looking for fun" are usually looking for intimate encounters. that is just the reality. also personal attacks are just not attractive.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Sat 02/08/14 08:30 AM
That wasn't a personal attack, that was him stating his opinion. Now on another note. The good men are out there, just quit looking for the money. I might've struck a nerve, but it's the ugly truth.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 02/09/14 10:41 AM
Looking for someone who is committed Most of the guys I dated should have been committed. Most of the ones I've dated have been committed....

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 02/09/14 10:42 AM
I think the definition of a "good man" varies from person to person. What is yours? True...

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 02/09/14 10:43 AM
wouldn't that be a bit awkward? Visitation might be a pain... No conjugal visits in the psych ward....

SethBarush Joined Sun 01/26/14 Posts: 9	Mon 02/10/14 05:14 PM
Actually I am in the kitchen, but Im listening to Springsteen as I work so Im still tough.

Mississippigal2003 Joined Thu 01/16/14 Posts: 1739	Mon 02/10/14 06:23 PM
Looking for someone who is committed Most of the guys I dated should have been committed. Most of the ones I've dated have been committed.... most of the guys I've dated have been committed.....just not to me! Mostly to their wives or gfs

JMDPA1965 Joined Sat 02/08/14 Posts: 495	Mon 02/10/14 06:38 PM
There are good people out there, you have show patience and be willing to work hard to find them. there is a lot of negative people out there. I would be the first to admit, it frustrated me at times. You can not lose hope. Stay on course and have faith in yourself.

SunnSide99 Joined Sat 11/09/13 Posts: 3	Mon 02/10/14 07:22 PM Edited by SunnSide99 on Mon 02/10/14 07:28 PM
Maybe some have been used as A Doormat, and thrown to the Side...Instead of being Straight Forward

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48917	Mon 02/10/14 07:23 PM
wouldn't that be a bit awkward? Visitation might be a pain... No conjugal visits in the psych ward.... I didn't know that you were allowed any visitors.