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Ok, I been lusting this guy at work for awhile. I know hes not into me cause he told me hes married but hes not. Anywho, my bday just passed & I was flirting & asked for a bday hug. I thought he was gona say no, but when he went to hug me, I just thought it was gona be a half hug with a few pats on the back. He gave me a full body hug & I didnt want to make him uncomfortable so I was gona pull away but he pulled me in tighter. So does this mean anything or its just wishful thinking? Enlighten me please
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not enough info to tell, but it sounds like he's thinking about it...
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If he realizes your interest, just being nice & not totally rude.
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he's in love with someone esle,cause you works together he don't wanna hurts you,he just needs friendship ,nothing else ok
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Thanx, yall for your oppinions. I think ima cry now. I guess it was all wishful thinking. When I crush, I crush hard. Its one of those curses of being a woman, our, we let our emotions do the thinking. Now, ima go home & eat my emotions
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If he liked you at all, he would lose the marriage lie.
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Yea, I know if he liked me, he would come clean. I dont know whats wrong with me. Chasing after guys that dont want me & when I get attention from the ones I like, its never what I think it is....bummer. Thanx everybody for honest answers :(
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Msmoxi87, keep your head up high, the right man will come alone.
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Edited by
jacktrades
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Sun 03/09/14 11:18 PM
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The fact that he hugged you tight means he wants you to know your attractive and wants you to have no hard feelings. It seems he does not want to get involved with someone he works with and all the drama that goes with it.I bet if you two did not work together he would date you for sure.
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Helo common chat
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Don't start playing with a married bloke that's a NO NO.
Then again you have the Maury Povich show 
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Don't start playing with a married bloke that's a NO NO. Then again you have the Maury Povich show Merc, you and my baby momma gonna have a fist fight on Jerry Springer. 
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Don't start playing with a married bloke that's a NO NO. Then again you have the Maury Povich show Merc, you and my baby momma gonna have a fist fight on Jerry Springer. 
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It does not matter what he thinks or you think. If he is married you should be thinking of him as a friend only.
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Relationships at work are horrible. Anyway, if I were you, I would look at it as his loss, and move on.
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Ok, I been lusting this guy at work for awhile. I know hes not into me cause he told me hes married but hes not. Anywho, my bday just passed & I was flirting & asked for a bday hug. I thought he was gona say no, but when he went to hug me, I just thought it was gona be a half hug with a few pats on the back. He gave me a full body hug & I didnt want to make him uncomfortable so I was gona pull away but he pulled me in tighter. So does this mean anything or its just wishful thinking? Enlighten me please he probably felt your boobs against him and wanted a better feel  
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Edited by
carteblanc
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Tue 06/17/14 08:17 AM
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Many guys don't like to get emotionally involved with women in the organization they seriously belong to(work, school, church, etc.), unless they have a really strong crush on them, because of the huge price they will have to pay in case their move fails..
I've rather witnessed many cases where guys made their moves when they were about to leave the organization for good anyway..
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Some guys are not aggressive so you have to have an eye to be able to depict if that's the case. Try to put yourself around him more be nice and don't over pursuit. If he really is married stand down!!! If he's not then keep your eyes right there, I say something might spark....
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YOU ARE TRYING TO HARD
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What's up Seethestar?
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