Topic: what's wrong with women that have kids????
mommy9's photo
Sun 03/09/14 07:04 PM
It seems like no guys at all want a true relationship with a single mother..... what's wrong with women that have kids? We are no different than other women

JohnB86's photo
Sun 03/09/14 07:33 PM
Nothing is wrong,i was closer to marry one single mom,then her parents get involved. I really love her son,children's is no guilty for mistakes of parents .

mommy9's photo
Sun 03/09/14 07:40 PM
no it's just like every guy that i talk to wants to hang out and get to know each other until i tell them that i have children then they just disappear and i never hear from them again

JohnB86's photo
Sun 03/09/14 07:48 PM
Well that's because they are afraid,of obligation,commitment,you don't find mans,you find something else. When i meet my ex gf,i already know that she is single parent mom,but through speech i start to fall in love with her,she dump me after one year of relationship 2 days after i get fired from job (her parents don't have cash,and they filed her had with bad things).

mommy9's photo
Sun 03/09/14 07:52 PM
oh I'm sorry about that

JohnB86's photo
Sun 03/09/14 07:58 PM
No problem,she will be sorry more,I'm again on my feet. :)

You will first have to tell the guy that you have child,and what you expect,of course that everyone want's to date and take you to bed,but when you tell you have kid they get scared,thinking she want's father,i'm not ready and crap like that. Right guy will show you that he doesn't mind and he is ready,right guy will come eventually,you are still young mom,you will catch someone ;).
I would like that i live closer to show you that this is not just another one stupid story and that there is really ready guys.

mommy9's photo
Sun 03/09/14 08:01 PM
Yeah you do kinda far lol

JohnB86's photo
Sun 03/09/14 08:06 PM
What is 10000 miles? :D

Yea i know,but there are rarely any girl from Europe here :)

i tell you everything is ok with single parent moms but you just need to find "ready" guy. Btw you also like others think now twice or 20x before you start or planing to start something serious. I'm right?

longboardernew's photo
Tue 03/11/14 07:02 PM

Well that's because they are afraid,of obligation,commitment,you don't find mans,you find something else. When i meet my ex gf,i already know that she is single parent mom,but through speech i start to fall in love with her,she dump me after one year of relationship 2 days after i get fired from job (her parents don't have cash,and they filed her had with bad things).


sounds like my ex but she didn't have kids and i suspect her mom did a lot to try and sabotage the relationship

Hurricane26218's photo
Tue 03/11/14 11:16 PM
nothing wrong,just chill out... a perfect guy will catch u soon ...

OralManOnly's photo
Wed 03/12/14 04:09 AM
I agree, however I think perhaps some men just run away as they do not want the added responsibility.
It takes a special man to take responsibility and to love someone else's kids unconditionally.
That been said, there are men out there that are very caring and loving and will love you and your kids, you just got to keep looking.
Good luck!

CowboyGH's photo
Wed 03/12/14 11:09 AM

It seems like no guys at all want a true relationship with a single mother..... what's wrong with women that have kids? We are no different than other women


A "guy" might care, but a "man" won't. Nothing's wrong with women that have kids.

OralManOnly's photo
Thu 03/13/14 04:43 AM
Sorry I cannot agree with you. Real men do care, I'm proof of that :)

OralManOnly's photo
Thu 03/13/14 04:46 AM
The fact that I happen to be gay, doesn't make me any less of a man. Stereotyping is been totally misinformed. :)