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Topic: why do males treat femals so bad now a days ?
funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Tue 04/15/14 04:54 PM
she is good, working right now....while i'm studying my a s s off! I have my 3rd IT certification tomorrow morning at 8:15am....hoping to pass this one first time as well....but for some reason i'm worried Yeah, I know the feeling, I spend far too much time on Mingle but I just can't help myself. That's part of the reason I deactivated....I need to focus on passing these certifications so I can get a good job, I want to move to San Francisco but I always don't want to be living in the ghetto when I get there! That and you cute little out-of-reach self but I understand my GF is older than me, so I understand the appeal of older ladies...even if I can't explain why

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Tue 04/15/14 04:59 PM
she is good, working right now....while i'm studying my a s s off! I have my 3rd IT certification tomorrow morning at 8:15am....hoping to pass this one first time as well....but for some reason i'm worried Yeah, I know the feeling, I spend far too much time on Mingle but I just can't help myself. That's part of the reason I deactivated....I need to focus on passing these certifications so I can get a good job, I want to move to San Francisco but I always don't want to be living in the ghetto when I get there! That and you cute little out-of-reach self but I understand my GF is older than me, so I understand the appeal of older ladies...even if I can't explain why To bad you're all the way in England, I could introduce to you a few ladies down here i'm sure wouldn't mind meeting you....and if you didn't like them, there are a few gay bars down here that i like going to as well...i'm sure you'd have all sorts of luck there...especially with an accent. Yes i'm str8 and I go to Gay Bars some of my gay friends have referred to me as a "good little fruit fly"....not sure EXACTLY what it means but it was said in a positive so....I'll take it as such..... and hey, gay bars are the only place where I don't have to buy the drinks

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Tue 04/15/14 05:07 PM
she is good, working right now....while i'm studying my a s s off! I have my 3rd IT certification tomorrow morning at 8:15am....hoping to pass this one first time as well....but for some reason i'm worried Yeah, I know the feeling, I spend far too much time on Mingle but I just can't help myself. That's part of the reason I deactivated....I need to focus on passing these certifications so I can get a good job, I want to move to San Francisco but I always don't want to be living in the ghetto when I get there! That and you cute little out-of-reach self but I understand my GF is older than me, so I understand the appeal of older ladies...even if I can't explain why To bad you're all the way in England, I could introduce to you a few ladies down here i'm sure wouldn't mind meeting you....and if you didn't like them, there are a few gay bars down here that i like going to as well...i'm sure you'd have all sorts of luck there...especially with an accent. Yes i'm str8 and I go to Gay Bars some of my gay friends have referred to me as a "good little fruit fly"....not sure EXACTLY what it means but it was said in a positive so....I'll take it as such..... and hey, gay bars are the only place where I don't have to buy the drinks Oh No, never been to one in my life. Just don't appeal to me, I'll get bullied by all the big butch dykes. Just never been my thing really

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48916	Tue 04/15/14 05:48 PM
she is good, working right now....while i'm studying my a s s off! I have my 3rd IT certification tomorrow morning at 8:15am....hoping to pass this one first time as well....but for some reason i'm worried Yeah, I know the feeling, I spend far too much time on Mingle but I just can't help myself. You can spend too much time on Mingle2?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48916	Tue 04/15/14 05:49 PM
now 'nice guy' threads are veiled and hidden! This is another "nice guy" thread? Say it isn't so, Joe.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 04/15/14 05:57 PM
Thanks dream:p Actually, I doubt I could be that guy. I'm too laid back. Plus I've got a daughter and I would never want anyone to treat her like crap. It does seem men & women are a little harsh to one another these days. I'll probably just try to find some females that I can be friends with. I don't think I've the energy for any drama at the moment. the drama is one thing that I think many of us more "expereinced" out there are leary of, I agree. I think it's best to be true to oneself and judge each person individually by an objective set of standards. The reason things may seem harsher may be because of your own perspective being clouded by recent experience, or just cuz this site is going to have a higher percentage of single people recovering from break ups than the general population.....because that is one reason the site is here, to find someone new but healing has to happen first

sexyGUMIHO Joined Tue 04/15/14 Posts: 10	Tue 04/15/14 06:03 PM
So true ... Maybe not physically but always emotionally

longboardernew Joined Mon 02/03/14 Posts: 583	Tue 04/15/14 06:53 PM
some times it is more a female putting down a male and that can hurt more sometimes

longboardernew Joined Mon 02/03/14 Posts: 583	Tue 04/15/14 07:19 PM
some times it is more a female putting down a male and that can hurt more sometimes no. one is not more than the other. not a contest either. what a weird thing to say. that was more the situation with my ex as I suspect her mom was always around and I could never talk to another female without supposedly "wanting to screw that chick" even if she was an old friend

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 04/15/14 07:20 PM
.. yeah you lost me on that treat all women like your daughter part.. yeah .. not a image I want in my head.. .. thank you so much for that..

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 04/15/14 07:21 PM
some times it is more a female putting down a male and that can hurt more sometimes no. one is not more than the other. not a contest either. what a weird thing to say. that was more the situation with my ex as I suspect her mom was always around and I could never talk to another female without supposedly "wanting to screw that chick" even if she was an old friend sounds unfortunate but I think what klc was saying is that the hurt is not worse for a man being put down by a woman...it hurts just as much either way

longboardernew Joined Mon 02/03/14 Posts: 583	Tue 04/15/14 07:23 PM
some times it is more a female putting down a male and that can hurt more sometimes no. one is not more than the other. not a contest either. what a weird thing to say. that was more the situation with my ex as I suspect her mom was always around and I could never talk to another female without supposedly "wanting to screw that chick" even if she was an old friend sounds unfortunate but I think what klc was saying is that the hurt is not worse for a man being put down by a woman...it hurts just as much either way that is true, the worst part is it only took 1 song to bring it all up and it was played accidentally

blueeyse47 Joined Fri 04/04/14 Posts: 1	Tue 04/15/14 08:18 PM
Thank u! Iam glad u said that.