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Topic: Right Love at the wrong time?
AMILIA1724's photo
Fri 06/06/14 02:57 PM
Edited by AMILIA1724 on Fri 06/06/14 03:01 PM
Right love at the
wrong time,really exist?

Argo's photo
Fri 06/06/14 04:13 PM
usually when the bartender hollers out............Last Call !!! drinks

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 06/06/14 04:23 PM

usually when the bartender hollers out............Last Call !!! drinks


a.k.a. the closing-time effect.

no1phD's photo
Fri 06/06/14 04:25 PM
Yes. I for one have met a few women.
the right woman.. at the absolute worst time... and they are the ones I often think about.. if the timing would have been a little different.
Hmm. would have could have should have..

pkh's photo
Fri 06/06/14 06:19 PM
Yep, have had that happen

no photo
Fri 06/06/14 06:25 PM
So so true...

0ldhag's photo
Fri 06/06/14 06:45 PM
really exist?


Nope. It just means that one isn't as into the other as the other is into the one.

I'm a poet and don't know it :)

no photo
Fri 06/06/14 06:53 PM

usually when the bartender hollers out............Last Call !!! drinks

Yeah, just as you're making an impression the bar staff put an end to it all.

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 06/06/14 07:35 PM


usually when the bartender hollers out............Last Call !!! drinks

Yeah, just as you're making an impression the bar staff put an end to it all.

Perhaps that is why the bar staff put an end to it all.
You didn't say anything about making a good impression. :tongue:

no photo
Fri 06/06/14 07:39 PM



usually when the bartender hollers out............Last Call !!! drinks

Yeah, just as you're making an impression the bar staff put an end to it all.

Perhaps that is why the bar staff put an end to it all.
You didn't say anything about making a good impression. :tongue:

Oh yeah, I left the word 'good' out.
I suppose the bar staff can help at times too, when it's not going so well

Thomas27's photo
Fri 06/06/14 08:06 PM
You mean kind of like a transgendered person? Right timing, wrong body scared

ridewytepony's photo
Fri 06/06/14 08:38 PM

really exist?


Nope. It just means that one isn't as into the other as the other is into the one.

I'm a poet and don't know it :)

This can often be true in other words though,
you could both have the feelings and want to love but maybe
never follow it through out of fear thing may go bad as its not perfect.

I left one to go off to work and we had never had a bad word in our time
together.She eventually got back with her husband which was good as I left for 7 months and broke clean.



jacktrades's photo
Sat 06/07/14 01:42 AM
Yes I believe that can happen.

no photo
Sat 06/07/14 04:14 AM
Edited by Scoobert on Sat 06/07/14 04:16 AM
oops messed up my editlaugh

no photo
Sat 06/07/14 04:17 AM

It happens quite often when people happen to be from different parts of the country or world. People have careers and sometimes family, that they just can't up n leave. So it just doesn't come to be for a practical relationship.

AMILIA1724's photo
Sat 06/07/14 05:31 AM
Your right Scoobywaving

kc0003's photo
Sat 06/07/14 06:03 AM
Timing is critical

TawtStrat's photo
Sat 06/07/14 08:38 AM
I've felt that way about relationships that didn't work out and also about opportunities that I had that I didn't take. One that I always remember is a girl that spoke to me in a supermarket checkout when I was buying fruit when I was very young. She was very nice and seemed to be interested in me but I didn't ask her for her number or if she wanted to go for a drink or anything and just said goodbye and walked away. Fear of rejection basically.

That sort of thing happened to me more than once and another memory that I have is of going into a pub one time and there were a group of gorgeous girls sitting at a table near the bar but I didn't say hello to them or do anything. I would think about these things and about what I could have said or done and I kept beating myself up like that for a while. Then I decided to just bite the bullet and take my chances because it was worse regretting not even trying than anything else.

I built up my confidence by just going for it and maybe I met "wrong women" or they just weren't that into me but at least I wasn't being a wimp. I agonised over a relationship that didn't work out because we were both going through stuff at the time. I felt that she was the right woman but that I met her at the wrong time and then I started to think that it had been the right time for us but that it wasn't meant to last. Now when I look back on those relationships I try to think about them as things that happened in my life that helped me to grow and develop as a person. I may have made mistakes but I don't consider getting involved with any of them as being mistakes.

It's probably easier to look at it like that if you are a man perhaps. Now what I do is to try to convince them that they won't regret it. That's the stage that I'm at with it and I'm not promising them anything that I can't give them and they can just take it or leave it.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sat 06/07/14 08:40 AM
Someone wise told me it has to be a perfect storm of elements fitting together.

Either that or you're just not attractive enough. Which love often responds to.

no photo
Sat 06/07/14 08:40 AM

Timing is critical


I so agree with this ((((Kevin))))!flowerforyou

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