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Topic: Dating is fun
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Sat 06/21/14 02:54 AM
Anyone from Mongolia?

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Sat 06/21/14 03:09 AM
Hi wanna chat

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Sat 06/21/14 03:39 AM
Edited by AthenaRose2 on Sat 06/21/14 03:45 AM

Dating is fun... Wanna more on how to make my skills more fun and appealing.any advice


I might get heckled for this response but I read Exercise One trying to pick up a tip in response to the OP's original post... and I was surprised at the advice given on this public forum...

Pulling my pants down around my ankles, or seeing a man pull his pants down around his in a public place wouldn't be what I would consider to be a fun skill to teach others who are trying to learn tactics that other daters use to pick up a date.

And as I pictured being in the mall and looking at a man, or someone we would automatically assume is a "pervert" who's doing this, while also looking around at everybody else who's looking at the man making a spectacle of himself, with the high probability there would also be children gawking at his antics and putting ideas in their impressionable young minds, I fail to see how this lesson is really helpful or appealing to the OP.

Butt then again, maybe its just me.

Maybe I can't discern the good advice through all the laughter and applause being dished out for bad behavior... ohwell

frustrated

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Sat 06/21/14 08:30 AM
:banana: :heart: yaaaaaaaaaaaa

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Sat 06/21/14 11:24 AM
Dating is not rocket science; just treat others with the same courtesy you would appreciate and look for like interests.

If you don't have a lot of interest at least try to add one new one a week even if it is to minimally capable of doing or discussing it. It will become much more interesting and you can master it when you find a friend to share it. If it is some of the more popular ones great but it can be something unique.

The idea of actually having a specific plan for a date does make the chances for the invitation actually being accepted or at least and alternative offered much more likely. Starting with something simple, safe and time limited is your best bet. It is not nearly as important to wow your date with something you can not afford to sustain anyway as it is to have a positive first impression that you cared enough to share your time creating a pleasant memory.

Also going out and looking and acting like a fun or at least pleasant and respectable person to be with helps. If you go out looking and acting dumpy you will be invisible. Smile make eye contact, smile, make a point of learning peoples names, smile, practice basic manners, smile, invest in local people you can actually interact with, smile.... you get what is most important?

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Sat 06/21/14 12:34 PM
Not sure whether I'd be a good date or not, so don't know what to advise.

Dating may very well be fun, but with a certain guy, it was the beginning of the end, when he demanded I have 'Snapchat'. Instantly, alarm bells started ringing. I liked him a lot, but taking naked pics of myself to send off, would only be a new low for me. I don't intend on doing that EVER. I had to tell myself to wake the eff up and get real. He merely wanted trashy pics of me. And if he TRULY wanted me, he'd have tried EVERY effort to keep me, which he didn't. But still, I'm glad I didn't end up with "Snapchat Guy". lol

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Sat 06/21/14 01:42 PM


Last I knew, "NO" means "NO", I would not like to go out with you when asking for a date. So I don't understand some of the misguided people that can't read and comprehend what was written. I had stated disturbing the shyness factor and asking after making small talk and attempted flirting, and the answer is NO from the person in question. You're still dateless. frustrated
sounds more like you did not comprehend what was written. no one suggested you ask out the same person who said 'no' to you, again. They suggested you get over the fear of 'no' and ask again and again....meaning OTHER people.
Wrong I comprehended fine, I was reiterating what I had said before, that's all.
I know you don't ask the same person, and you just move along til the next possible opportunity comes along. Just was stating if person asked said No, then you're still dateless at that time. Thanks, I'm done now responding to subject and will just read...lollaugh

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