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Topic: to date or not to date?
MaJayJay29's photo
Sat 06/21/14 11:42 PM
I have never been on a real date. It has always been a boyfriend and only him or be straight up single. My mom says I need to just date a bunch of guys and make one steady later down the road. I don't even know how to just date without getting a guilt complex. I'm not even sure what I am asking I just know I'm confused about dating and its not like I have many men to choose from.

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Sun 06/22/14 01:44 AM
You have me confused too.

TBRich's photo
Sun 06/22/14 02:00 AM

I have never been on a real date. It has always been a boyfriend and only him or be straight up single. My mom says I need to just date a bunch of guys and make one steady later down the road. I don't even know how to just date without getting a guilt complex. I'm not even sure what I am asking I just know I'm confused about dating and its not like I have many men to choose from.


Aww, that is so sweet, so Leave It To Beaver. Oopsie, I bent over to pick up my shoes the computer chair just rolled out from under me, faceplanting me onto the floor, so I need to clean up the blood before work LOL. Anyhow, didn't you see what happened to the Great Gatsby?

Jtevans's photo
Sun 06/22/14 02:18 AM
when i take a woman on a date,there's only 3 questions i ask


1. "how much for an hour?"

2. "do you have any std's?"

3. "mind if we stop by a dr to make sure?"



and then an hour or so later i drop her off on the street corner where i picked her up

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Sun 06/22/14 05:53 AM
Too funny JTlaugh

Thomas27's photo
Sun 06/22/14 05:59 AM
Okay, you have never been on a date, met you have had boyfriends? Did you just meet someone and get in a committed relationship right off?

I suggest you start playing bingo at the American Legion...

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 06/22/14 10:56 AM
Well for me, if I can't understand his accent, how does he expect me to know what he's saying? That's just one of my queries about dating anyone new. I'm sure you know what type of guy you want, so hopefully that'll make your decision easier. If you're dating a few at once, pick the one that seems the most appealing.

MaJayJay29's photo
Sun 06/22/14 11:33 AM

Anyhow, didn't you see what happened to the Great Gatsby?

No idea what your talking about.

MaJayJay29's photo
Sun 06/22/14 11:49 AM
My impression of a date is you go out with a person alone with the intention of getting to know him/her and if its bad that's it you don't see em again. If its good you do it again. And if your in relationship a date is to strengthen the romance. The guys I've dated was already friends or at least guys I somewhat knew so the whole dating process was skipped. That being said no need to reply I would delete the thred but don't know how.

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Sun 06/22/14 01:47 PM
Dating is the only way you will find out who you are with....and it's fun..

Thomas27's photo
Sun 06/22/14 01:47 PM

Dating is the only way you will find out who you are with....and it's fun..


I didn't think you were having a good time, that is why I never called back. Wait a minute, did you block me with that app?? tongue2

0ldhag's photo
Sun 06/22/14 02:19 PM

I have never been on a real date. It has always been a boyfriend and only him or be straight up single. My mom says I need to just date a bunch of guys and make one steady later down the road. I don't even know how to just date without getting a guilt complex. I'm not even sure what I am asking I just know I'm confused about dating and its not like I have many men to choose from.


There is another forum on here about 'settling' and apparently settling is rejected by the masses. Wouldn't casual dating be considered the same as settling?

eileena9's photo
Sun 06/22/14 04:46 PM


I have never been on a real date. It has always been a boyfriend and only him or be straight up single. My mom says I need to just date a bunch of guys and make one steady later down the road. I don't even know how to just date without getting a guilt complex. I'm not even sure what I am asking I just know I'm confused about dating and its not like I have many men to choose from.


There is another forum on here about 'settling' and apparently settling is rejected by the masses. Wouldn't casual dating be considered the same as settling?


Not in my opinion, casual dating is a way to find out about the person and see if you are compatible. The first few dates, both parties are usually on their best behavior and the "real" person doesn't come through until they get more comfortable around you. You are settling because you haven't made an informed decision yet. flowerforyou

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Sun 06/22/14 04:47 PM


Dating is the only way you will find out who you are with....and it's fun..


I didn't think you were having a good time, that is why I never called back. Wait a minute, did you block me with that app?? tongue2


Babe now would I tell you if I blocked you.....:laughing: :laughing:

Call me....

HoneyFly's photo
Sun 06/22/14 05:00 PM
Pretend dates can be fun too.

Goofball73's photo
Sun 06/22/14 08:35 PM
Soooo....I am concluding here that you would feel that should you date multiple guys at the same time then you would feel you are cheating on each date? Man....if that is the case then I am a terrible, terrible person. :tongue: laugh

no1phD's photo
Sun 06/22/14 09:03 PM
Awwww..op.. that's just sad..
well if you lived here..
I would take you on a date..
what do you like to do..
Hmm..

CowboyGH's photo
Sun 06/22/14 09:15 PM

I have never been on a real date. It has always been a boyfriend and only him or be straight up single. My mom says I need to just date a bunch of guys and make one steady later down the road. I don't even know how to just date without getting a guilt complex. I'm not even sure what I am asking I just know I'm confused about dating and its not like I have many men to choose from.


Sounds beautiful to me, I wouldn't suggest dating a bunch of guys. Keep to your standards and keep to one man. The man who appreciates it will come along. Women are much more beautiful when they aren't just jumping around person to person, not sexually intended specifically. Why wait till later down the road? Doing that, you could very well potentially pass up "the one" in doing that.

Thomas27's photo
Sun 06/22/14 10:30 PM



Dating is the only way you will find out who you are with....and it's fun..


I didn't think you were having a good time, that is why I never called back. Wait a minute, did you block me with that app?? tongue2


Babe now would I tell you if I blocked you.....:laughing: :laughing:

Call me....


biggrin

Thomas27's photo
Sun 06/22/14 10:31 PM
Look here, play or get played. Simple as that...

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