Topic: Is love physical?
CowboyGH's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:11 PM


MaJayJay29, did it ever occur to you that CowboyGH may have the God-given ability to refrain from sexual intercourse until after marriage? Plenty of Christian have that God-given ability.

I was not trying to dis him. It just sounded to me like he had something against it and it sounded like he was saying even after marriage sex was nothing but duty. I don't know if that is what he was saying just that is what I was seeing.


lol I apologize for coming off like that. But nah, it ain't a "duty" or anything like that lol. It's a very beautiful and wonderful experience. But just like anything else, it looses it's passion, it's beauty, it's meaning if done just casually or "often".

Thomas27's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:12 PM
Take it for a test drive, you know, sex...

Report back and tell us how it went...

Cut the lights off if you need to, just make it happen.

drinks

CowboyGH's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:13 PM

Take it for a test drive, you know, sex...

Report back and tell us how it went...

Cut the lights off if you need to, just make it happen.

drinks



Lol exactly more so what I speak against and not specifically sex in itself. The "test driving" rofl.

MaJayJay29's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:13 PM
Sex gives children, it gives intense pleasure and an intament knowledge of each other you share only with your love. It may not be needed to start a relationship but it helps keep one going. And remember a kiss of live is a sexual act too.

no photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:16 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Mon 06/23/14 07:18 PM


Cowboy you say some of the smartest and sweetest things..... but you kinda scare me with your lack of interest in sex. Please don't be offended but I just don't get it.


Lol no worries, not offended. But I am not uninterested in sex, just not sex with every pretty face. She's gotta earn it with her heart and mind first before I even have the thought or desire to and just some things shouldn't be shared with other's and it shouldn't be talked about like it's some food joint you love going to once a week after work or some casual activity one partakes in.
:thumbsup:

Oh, and what Goof said. The Goofster is usually CORRECT :)

MaJayJay29's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:16 PM
OK I misinterpreted what you were saying. I may not agree but I admire you for your sentiments and for having great ideas.

Thomas27's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:16 PM


Take it for a test drive, you know, sex...

Report back and tell us how it went...

Cut the lights off if you need to, just make it happen.

drinks



Lol exactly more so what I speak against and not specifically sex in itself. The "test driving" rofl.


Look, I said she can cut the lights off... Geeze....

rofl

CowboyGH's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:18 PM

Sex gives children, it gives intense pleasure and an intament knowledge of each other you share only with your love. It may not be needed to start a relationship but it helps keep one going. And remember a kiss of live is a sexual act too.


Sex gives children yes, but it doesn't give intimate knowledge of each other you share only with your love. Making love does the latter part there, not just sex on a general note. And it's not truly needed for any relationship, to start or to keep it going. If the two can't stay together without specifically sex, they'll never stay together anyway.


And remember a kiss of live is a sexual act too.


Only if those intentions are there. A kiss is passionate, because you're having someone's face come up closer to your face then any other on a regular basis.... it's about trust. It's about sharing yourself or sharing an experience with a certain somebody that you don't do with other's.

MaJayJay29's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:21 PM
The girl who catches your eye is a fool if she ever let's you go.

Thomas27's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:23 PM
ill

CowboyGH's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:25 PM

The girl who catches your eye is a fool if she ever let's you go.


Thanks Jay Jay, a couple girls have caught my eye along the way. But ended up to be exactly what I'm talking against about in here lol.

Thomas27's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:27 PM



The girl who catches your eye is a fool if she ever let's you go.


Thanks Jay Jay, a couple girls have caught my eye along the way. But ended up to be exactly what I'm talking against about in here lol.


I'll keep my head up high waiting in search of her. But all the women I've come across so far only wanted one thing after a while. And they were quite surprised when they found out I'm not easy... obviously women don't really enjoy surprises as much as they claim >.>


You need to open the package in order to get the surprise right? what

CowboyGH's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:28 PM


The girl who catches your eye is a fool if she ever let's you go.


Thanks Jay Jay, a couple girls have caught my eye along the way. But ended up to be exactly what I'm talking against about in here lol.


I'll keep my head up high waiting in search of her. But all the women I've come across so far only wanted one thing after a while. And they were quite surprised when they found out I'm not easy... obviously women don't really enjoy surprises as much as they claim >.>

CowboyGH's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:32 PM




The girl who catches your eye is a fool if she ever let's you go.


Thanks Jay Jay, a couple girls have caught my eye along the way. But ended up to be exactly what I'm talking against about in here lol.


I'll keep my head up high waiting in search of her. But all the women I've come across so far only wanted one thing after a while. And they were quite surprised when they found out I'm not easy... obviously women don't really enjoy surprises as much as they claim >.>


You need to open the package in order to get the surprise right? what


Yeah, but you have to wait till morning to open your Christmas present rofl. And they weren't willing to wait, so their loss.

no photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:35 PM





The girl who catches your eye is a fool if she ever let's you go.


Thanks Jay Jay, a couple girls have caught my eye along the way. But ended up to be exactly what I'm talking against about in here lol.


I'll keep my head up high waiting in search of her. But all the women I've come across so far only wanted one thing after a while. And they were quite surprised when they found out I'm not easy... obviously women don't really enjoy surprises as much as they claim >.>


You need to open the package in order to get the surprise right? what


Yeah, but you have to wait till morning to open your Christmas present rofl. And they weren't willing to wait, so their loss.


agreed

kc0003's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:38 PM


Cowboy you say some of the smartest and sweetest things..... but you kinda scare me with your lack of interest in sex. Please don't be offended but I just don't get it.


MaJayJay29, did it ever occur to you that CowboyGH may have the God-given ability to refrain from sexual intercourse until after marriage? Plenty of Christian have that God-given ability.

obviously it occur to her that he has some kind of negative stigma towards sex. it was a valid question given some of his views. he can deny it all he likes, but there are many examples of his negative attitude towards sex. indecently, he seldom, if ever, says sex has to be shared only between married couples.

Thomas27's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:51 PM
Silence?......

MaJayJay29's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:53 PM

it doesn't give intimate knowledge of each other you share only with your love. Making love does the latter part there, not just sex on a general note

Now see there is the part of my confusion. when you see the word sex you see the crude version when I see the word sex I see all the implications including making love. The only way to make me see as crude like you do is to call it F***ing. its all a point of view my friend. I still dont agree with you but I do understand your point of view. that being said sex or no sex there still has to be a physical attraction. how can you be with someone you can not touch in a loving and comfortable way. and i am talking any kind of touch not just sex.

Thomas27's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:56 PM


it doesn't give intimate knowledge of each other you share only with your love. Making love does the latter part there, not just sex on a general note

Now see there is the part of my confusion. when you see the word sex you see the crude version when I see the word sex I see all the implications including making love. The only way to make me see as crude like you do is to call it F***ing. its all a point of view my friend. I still dont agree with you but I do understand your point of view. that being said sex or no sex there still has to be a physical attraction. how can you be with someone you can not touch in a loving and comfortable way. and i am talking any kind of touch not just sex.




The girl who catches your eye is a fool if she ever let's you go.



Come on, which is it?

rofl

MaJayJay29's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:58 PM
im a fool. havent you figured that out yet. i wish i could be the type of girl that views like he does but damn i just love sex too much to give it up for such high morals.