I really miss having a good guy to call up or text and get so excited to see. Problem is I think that only exists in high school and guys are usually after sex. I have gone out with many guys and all ended up with just sex. Is there anyone that maybe wants to get to know me and take it slow because I certainly am not looking to get married tomorrow.

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Welcome, young darlin.

Basically it comes down to three things:

1) When men are not serious about a LTR they are not very selective about the women they date.

2) Once a man realizes he is ready to get married or be exclusive he becomes much picker about the woman he chooses to date. With the ratio of non-serious men greatly outnumbering the serious mature quality men in this world and the quality men being extremely selective it is very hard to find a good man for yourself.

3) Lastly quality men are easily dissuaded from continuing to date someone they don't see a future with.

The biggest problem is the strategies women learn to attract men tend to only work for men who are still not interested in LTR.

They work on men who are only looking for sex or at most casual dating. The older women will recognize this phrase: "guys on the hunt only want sex but they want to marry a virgin." Not fair but there is truth in it.

Change the bait you're advertising. Oh: stop handing out sex so freely. A "Real Man" (looking for a LTR) will shy away from someone who gives to quickly and easily.

I'm sure some men will bristle at that last statement: but I still feel it's true.

Relationship quality men do not waste time. If these men think you might not be what they are looking for in a woman, they will disappear faster then they appeared. Remember he is not looking for just sex now. He wants to spend his time looking for the right woman not wasting his time with any woman.

Note: You may be a good woman but might not the "Right" good woman for him. Good luck.

her account is deactivated

Guess she gave up.

Hey can we talk