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Topic: Wait or Create
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Wed 10/15/14 03:54 PM



I meet, on average, about 100 woman a week. Out of that I consider about a third of them to be attractive. I have some sort of conversation that last longer than 5 minutes with about ten of them and NONE of them seem to be single because they always bring up something about their husband/fiance/boyfriend.

Well, when you ask a woman for hot sex within 5 minutes of meeting her it's hardly surprising she mentions a husband or boyfriend or Fiance:wink: flowerforyou


If that's how it went down I'd agree, but what usually happens is I get this "My husband (boyfriend, etc...) and I really like this place."

Actually thinking about it, I would take that as a compliment. I mean at least they are chatting to you right.
If I think a guy is being creepy I just tell him to f--k right off, but if I think a guy is nice I just gently let him know that I'm a dyke, same sort of thing really so keep your chin up, you must be doing something right.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 10/15/14 03:57 PM
Hmmm ... I think I've changed my mind about the silver ... your chest pictures love

Goofball73's photo
Wed 10/15/14 04:00 PM

A single friend of mine sent me a clip from Matthey Hussey and there's this thing he comes up with: Do you Wait or Create.

question: how many new men/women do you meet a week? As in having a convo with him/her for at least 5 minutes, looking in each other's eyes, talking etc. So not the mail man.
If the answer is 1 or less, how long do you think it's going to take till you find 'the one'?


... Okay, I'm starting to get mildly concerned now ...


example: you're attending a party with 200 men (or women). Maybe you feel remotely attracted to 20 of 'em. And out of these 20, maybe just 10 you'd consider dating. And maybe only 5 you'd consider dating again.
From these 5 last men (women) standing, maybe, maybe one is 'the one' for you. Big maybe still.

So even with 200 men/women ... chances are very very slim. Imagine if you only meet one new guy/gal a week? 4 years and prolly still no one.


Getting more concerned now .. lol

QUESTION for you guys, curious, how many new men/women do you meet a week?


108 a week........Thank God for malls and other shopping outlets. You can talk to all kinds of chicks at these venues. laugh

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Wed 10/15/14 04:01 PM
Soooo.. not my silver..?. now just the pictures of my chest..hmm.. you know my chest is soooo much better in person.... at least that's what I'm told...oops

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 10/15/14 04:15 PM
@ Goofball, does that mean you hump women's groceries and shopping to their cars in order to get 5 mins of talk?
I'm up for that shades

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 10/15/14 04:16 PM

Soooo.. not my silver..?. now just the pictures of my chest..hmm.. you know my chest is soooo much better in person.... at least that's what I'm told...oops

No need for 'oops', Tall One, quite logical that ppl comment on your chest when you're working in your garden without a shirt, flexing muscles ..:tongue:

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Wed 10/15/14 04:19 PM
Noo.. just the neighbor next door..
her and I flirt back and forth.. it's quite harmless though.. and I never leave my yard with my shirt off...
.. that would be wrong.. besides all my t-shirts... fit tight enough. that draws enough attention to me...:angel: pitchfork

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 10/15/14 04:28 PM

Noo.. just the neighbor next door..
her and I flirt back and forth.. it's quite harmless though.. and I never leave my yard with my shirt off...
.. that would be wrong.. besides all my t-shirts... fit tight enough. that draws enough attention to me...:angel: pitchfork

Hmmm ... wished I had a neighbour like that ... The one at the back is pushing 90 laugh
Topless I wouldn't do ... always lots of bumble bees ... what if one would take my nipple for a rose bud?

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Wed 10/15/14 04:31 PM
.hmm.. I would gladly take your nipple over a Rose.... sorry couldn't help myself..lol.. but I'm sure the roses.. are humbled.. by the magnificent splendor of your nipples...flowerforyou

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 10/15/14 04:47 PM
mmm ... thank you blushing .. you could enter my garden .. get a taste of the roses .. but .. those terms ..

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Wed 10/15/14 05:08 PM

@ Goofball, does that mean you hump women's groceries and shopping to their cars in order to get 5 mins of talk?
I'm up for that shades


It's all about that five minutes Crystal. :wink:

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Wed 10/15/14 05:17 PM
Edited by no1phD on Wed 10/15/14 05:16 PM
Grrr.. had to take that picture down..
going to start getting mail pretty soon..lol...ok.. terms... I just had eight or nine of them laid out... they were perfect... I mean seriously very eloquent... Well. thought out.. very from the heart...and then my phone died..noooo.. wiped everything I put down out.. I could cry right now ,I hate it when that happens..... and here's the funny thing... it never happens.... my battery on my phone going dead... when Iam just posting.. random thoughts... but as soon as I'm trying to do something epic.... sure enough my phone dies..lmao.. I promise I will have to try again...
. and recall my terms... the ones I lost were beautiful...laugh

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SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 10/16/14 04:10 AM
.. crying shame .. but 8 or 9 ... You're not half demanding, are you? lol .. I hope you don't mind that .. while I wait for the update .. I put my top back on? .. I'm getting a bit .. nippy

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 10/16/14 04:45 PM


@ Goofball, does that mean you hump women's groceries and shopping to their cars in order to get 5 mins of talk?
I'm up for that shades


It's all about that five minutes Crystal. :wink:

That's 9 hours a week of talking to girls, not bad odds, Goofball! :tongue:
I wouldn't want to spend 9 hrs a week in shops though... I may very well have drinks more often. Even if it's just cappuccino in the afternoon
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I really live in the wrong area ... we don't even have malls on this island. And in the near 12 years I've lived here, I've only thrice seen a really interesting man. One was 'just' a hotty, danged sexy at that! The other two .. married .. Most men in this county look like farmer John, and many are in actual fact farmer John. And most are short. May sound judgmental, but I don't feel attracted to farmer Johns and certainly not if they're 2-4" shorter than me :/ When it comes to finding a nice bloke, I really should move ohwell

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Fri 10/17/14 03:17 PM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Fri 10/17/14 03:19 PM
0p all depends on the wk an the weather & mnth ...
I have been running into one man seems a lot ...
may have to ask if... he is in a relationship the nxt time ... bigsmile

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Fri 10/17/14 03:25 PM
If I am feeling him, I am all about "creating and waiting"....... as long as it takes:wink: ...When it comes to matters of the heart, men are slower than women...But when they finally do catch up...Oooolala, it's so worth the wait!!love :heart: smitten

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