Topic: relationship for marriage ...
no1phD's photo
Thu 10/16/14 03:56 PM
okay I need more information..lol

. how long do we have to stay married...
. are we going to sleep together..lol.. that is such a stupid question of course we're going to sleep together..

.. and do we have to stay committed to each other.... what I mean is can I see other people while we're married...?

no photo
Thu 10/16/14 04:38 PM
Edited by fleta_n_mach on Thu 10/16/14 04:37 PM
No. Waste of my time I have left in my life.

You want to buy some of my blood? A kidney? laugh

stan_147's photo
Thu 10/16/14 04:50 PM
Mixed is fine. I plan to use it to purchase an island, munitions and precious metals. After I complete the tropical themed Batcave.

I'll hang up my cowl, and leave the crime-fighting to some other guy. Pick up my fishing pole and a nice fruity drink with a paper umbrella while sitting back and putting my feet up.

Rock's photo
Thu 10/16/14 05:07 PM
I don't do marriage

mrld_ii's photo
Thu 10/16/14 05:08 PM

Mixed is fine. I plan to use it to purchase an island, munitions and precious metals. After I complete the tropical themed Batcave.

I'll hang up my cowl, and leave the crime-fighting to some other guy. Pick up my fishing pole and a nice fruity drink with a paper umbrella while sitting back and putting my feet up.



Ahhhhh...but, will you be wearing pants?!?

stan_147's photo
Thu 10/16/14 05:27 PM


Mixed is fine. I plan to use it to purchase an island, munitions and precious metals. After I complete the tropical themed Batcave.

I'll hang up my cowl, and leave the crime-fighting to some other guy. Pick up my fishing pole and a nice fruity drink with a paper umbrella while sitting back and putting my feet up.



Ahhhhh...but, will you be wearing pants?!?


Ummm... no.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 10/16/14 05:48 PM
I'd never marry a man just so he could stay in my country, ever.


How many do you believe take a partner here in the USA coming from a different country and lie about their love ...just to get the green card ... before you really have time to know them... least not very long ... and is it legal to do that ...have papers filed already for the divorce...

You'd have to stay together for x amount of years. If you split up before then, you gotta leave the country. Think in the States it's 5 years ... And if they check things, it's gotta be clear that the marriage is being consummated and genuine, so you cannot have separate rooms etc.

Long time ago someone tried to set me up with his son as I really wanted to stay in Australia. I'd have to pay him 10.000 AU dollar to marry his son. Right. And my name is Stupid? noway
I really wanted to stay in Australia, but no way was I gonna sell myself. I think daddy was interested in having easy access to a young girl that was easy to blackmail --> don't cooperate, my son will divorce you and you'll have to leave the country.

no photo
Thu 10/16/14 05:48 PM



Mixed is fine. I plan to use it to purchase an island, munitions and precious metals. After I complete the tropical themed Batcave.

I'll hang up my cowl, and leave the crime-fighting to some other guy. Pick up my fishing pole and a nice fruity drink with a paper umbrella while sitting back and putting my feet up.



Ahhhhh...but, will you be wearing pants?!?


Ummm... no.


Tighties, like football, mrld. Batman wears tights. drool

dcastelmissy's photo
Thu 10/16/14 06:00 PM
If the man who says he loves you and wants to be with you but lives in a different country then it's up to him to be responsible enough to find his way to where you are without requesting monetary expectations from you. If his love is true he will spare nothing to get to you in whatever way necessary. If not, he didn't really care for you! Hope is hope; but reality is reality! If it is meant to be it will happen; if it doesn't it is a hope for an illusion and unrealistic! JMHO

Goofball73's photo
Thu 10/16/14 07:07 PM

how much would you charge ... when some one may say ...name your price.. so long as you marry me to get my green card and then give me a divorce after ... of course you would have to pretend to love them right or is it that easy to get married and give a green card to someone in the country here illegally ... would you ever do that ?


I'd request the marriage last till after tax season so I would benefit from all the tax break a marriage brings. Yeah....I am so shallow but hey......they are getting a green card so I need something out of the deal. :banana:

no photo
Thu 10/16/14 07:33 PM

I'd never marry a man just so he could stay in my country, ever.


How many do you believe take a partner here in the USA coming from a different country and lie about their love ...just to get the green card ... before you really have time to know them... least not very long ... and is it legal to do that ...have papers filed already for the divorce...

You'd have to stay together for x amount of years. If you split up before then, you gotta leave the country. Think in the States it's 5 years ... And if they check things, it's gotta be clear that the marriage is being consummated and genuine, so you cannot have separate rooms etc.

Long time ago someone tried to set me up with his son as I really wanted to stay in Australia. I'd have to pay him 10.000 AU dollar to marry his son. Right. And my name is Stupid? noway
I really wanted to stay in Australia, but no way was I gonna sell myself. I think daddy was interested in having easy access to a young girl that was easy to blackmail --> don't cooperate, my son will divorce you and you'll have to leave the country.


Smart decision!

no photo
Thu 10/16/14 07:35 PM

If the man who says he loves you and wants to be with you but lives in a different country then it's up to him to be responsible enough to find his way to where you are without requesting monetary expectations from you. If his love is true he will spare nothing to get to you in whatever way necessary. If not, he didn't really care for you! Hope is hope; but reality is reality! If it is meant to be it will happen; if it doesn't it is a hope for an illusion and unrealistic! JMHO


Agreed.

no photo
Thu 10/16/14 07:36 PM



Mixed is fine. I plan to use it to purchase an island, munitions and precious metals. After I complete the tropical themed Batcave.

I'll hang up my cowl, and leave the crime-fighting to some other guy. Pick up my fishing pole and a nice fruity drink with a paper umbrella while sitting back and putting my feet up.



Ahhhhh...but, will you be wearing pants?!?


Ummm... no.


:laughing:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 10/17/14 02:41 AM

If the man who says he loves you and wants to be with you but lives in a different country then it's up to him to be responsible enough to find his way to where you are without requesting monetary expectations from you. If his love is true he will spare nothing to get to you in whatever way necessary. If not, he didn't really care for you! Hope is hope; but reality is reality! If it is meant to be it will happen; if it doesn't it is a hope for an illusion and unrealistic! JMHO

I don't agree with you here ... If you love each other and one happens to live in another country, you both will have to be willing to do something so you can be together. And yes, may be scary, may be that you have to go further than you normally would early on in a relationship. But love is not a one-way street. The one that's willing to move to your country, would be giving up on his/her entire life, belongings, friends, family, work etc etc, just so he/she can be with you. If you aren't willing to go the extra mile ... then it's not love.

mysticalview21's photo
Fri 10/17/14 01:37 PM
I believe some do it an say they love ...
but not really have to give up their home
or friendships or family they can go back to visit them ...
while they just married someone in the USA ...
which gave them more rights then they may of had before...


I had a friend do this... marry someone for the G card but
I think she was paid and neither one had anything to loose at the time ...thats why she excepted an the $ too ...
I believe it was easier back then also...

2469nascar's photo
Fri 10/17/14 02:28 PM




I would do it for a lifetime supply of horror Blu Rays.


New or used? :laughing:


Either. I'm not picky.


oops Oh wait! It is not over yet!
Not picky brings it to a whole new level!!! :laughing:
Let's count the number of replies in mailboxes and find that winner.
rofl rofl rofl

WOW vette must be to much to ask. I only got three replys. aint that a beech.

no photo
Fri 10/17/14 02:35 PM





I would do it for a lifetime supply of horror Blu Rays.


New or used? :laughing:


Either. I'm not picky.


oops Oh wait! It is not over yet!
Not picky brings it to a whole new level!!! :laughing:
Let's count the number of replies in mailboxes and find that winner.
rofl rofl rofl

WOW vette must be to much to ask. I only got three replys. aint that a beech.


That's why they call it "green card LOTTERY"... not everyone in it can win it.bigsmile

mysticalview21's photo
Fri 10/17/14 04:34 PM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Fri 10/17/14 04:32 PM
unless your doing it for the cash
their are many... who will do this in a second ... and try an get something from the other ...they may not have had before in their own life and pretend to love them ...

no photo
Fri 10/17/14 04:52 PM

unless your doing it for the cash
their are many... who will do this in a second ... and try an get something from the other ...they may not have had before in their own life and pretend to love them ...


Yes, I understand, but on the other hand I remember someone who pretended to wear size S when, after repeated trying it on, store manager brought same outfits size XXL and made a suggestion...
Long story short - I never went shopping with this person again. And it was only about person's actual size!

Imagine the reaction in a far more painful moment of realization! Especially if the situation involves any money and expectations that were not met.

Renovations can be very expensive.

2469nascar's photo
Fri 10/17/14 05:04 PM


unless your doing it for the cash
their are many... who will do this in a second ... and try an get something from the other ...they may not have had before in their own life and pretend to love them ...


Yes, I understand, but on the other hand I remember someone who pretended to wear size S when, after repeated trying it on, store manager brought same outfits size XXL and made a suggestion...
Long story short - I never went shopping with this person again. And it was only about person's actual size!

Imagine the reaction in a far more painful moment of realization! Especially if the situation involves any money and expectations that were not met.

Renovations can be very expensive.

[/quot. thats why i want the new VETTE befor i say I DO.frustrated