Married man, 60 old, white Christian, whose kid(s) are living away from home, created a profile without a photo to look for an intimate encounter and looks at the profile of a single women 16 years younger.

How would you feel if he was looking at your profile?

Christian is just a name. I would definitely think automatic pedophile. A 60 year old has no business looking at 16 year old kids. He is married then he has no business looking at my profile. Still I would be too young for him to be looking at my profile.

Well, perhaps being married and/or in relationship already while looking for someone for an intimate encounter is not an issue for some people, but it is for me. It is called cheating.

Why cheat at this day and age when anyone can get a divorce?

Well, some find it more convenient to stay married and/or in other relationship for financial or other reasons. I am aware of it.

However, the question is what's in it for a single person who is looking for a meaningful relationship, not just a secret intimacy behind someone spouse's back?

Also, if they look at someone more than 10-15 years younger or older and think they can be compatible with this person, fine! Good luck with that! But I do not think there is really a chance to find a meaningful relationship with such an age difference.

That's why I said " good luck " because they will need it!

But, again, they aren't into a meaningful relationship with that much younger/older person to begin with, or at least the person I took as an example obviously isn't, since he is already in relationship (married) and looking at much younger single woman.

What a "Christian" way of life!

Sometimes the ones that are the predators act in a way that by putting Christian and married in their profile makes them "safe." You can report people because of what they have said to you or in the forums. Just so you know.

Yes, I know.No contact. Yet!
I hope it shall remain that way.