How do u get a guy when u live in a city where all the guys in your city r either older or not very cute. I know that being cute isn't all there is in a relationship. However I would want to meet someone who is a little cute. Does anyone have any ideas as to what a girl can do.

.. have you tried mail order boyfriend..
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... perhaps guns and hoses will travel..
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.. sorry could not resist...
I sympathize with you..
I have met a few women online who live in small towns.... when the pool is small.. the best fish get caught right away..... look for a job in the city...
.. if that is an option....

Move.

Try a dating site.

post in the mingle forums!

smiles

Hmmfff ... sounds like my predicament ..

In my case the best male fish aren't tall enough, lol. .. understand you don't like to hear about height... but couldn't resist

hehehe...

not at all...

in the old world, Amazon was a insult...

am only opposed to one thing...

i may question people being called derogatory terms...

but, if any person LIKES being called such, well then, such is what dictates how i personally interact with that particular individual...

but across the board in men's locker rooms, amazon has always been a put dowm by many of the mass majority...

just to clear up that tidbit about "height"...

simply ludicrous...

hehehe...

smiles

Ding ... Ding ... We have a winner

Hi Jaimie,

If you're in college then perhaps there are some ways to meet guys your own age there? Are there any types of social groups, clubs in college that you could join? I don't know much about Ontario but my impression of Canada is that outside of the big cities (Montreal etc) it really is small towns with lots of road between each one. With a small town you have a small pool of available partners & of those the best ones get taken early. So, you either settle or find a bigger pool, & no one should settle.

All the guys in your city are too old or ugly??? I find that hard to believe

More like you may be too picky.. too critical

I never thought this problem would or could be a problem in this day and age... but I'm living it myself as well ..
Getting out of this county would take more than an hour to drive, a bit dear to go to gym that far away a few times a week ..
And dating that far away isn't handy either.. The really nice - and tall - men all seem to live in the east of my country.. that's a 3 - 4 hour drive for me..
It takes a lot of time, money, and another party willing to go there with you .. And decent transportation .. I dated someone from Amsterdam.. he didn't have a car, because insurance and parking in Amsterdam costs a bomb. But then I had to drive 140 km, which takes me 3 hrs total to get someone from and to the nearest train station --> on the next island ..
It would take someone some 4 hours to get here from Amsterdam using public transport, and Amsterdam is not even all that far away.

I never thought something like this could ever be a problem .. but I'm stuck with it myself too .. Living in backwater yokel-county .. It's a beautiful county, its nature, beaches etc.. but if you're looking for a man or a job ... you're in deep chit.