Maybe they need a bit of training !

Is there a suggestion here that older women actually date? I see very few older, single women out in society that are approachable. Most that you see are with a half dozen other women and are totally ignoring anyone not part of their group. Younger singles are out and about, older are not! Must be that old fashioned idea that a single woman can't be seen out by herself.

I am in my sixties and separated.
Am looking for a women, but not under 50.
They are mature experienced and know what they want.

Everybody wants perfection. 50 plus ladies look great and dress even better. Up to the older man to be eager to please. Elegance and glamour are worth the effort.

A woman under 50 would not interested me.
Women over fifty are much more mature.

I am in my sixties anyway!

Don't think that is true.
A mature woman likes a mature man.
Its a known fact that a womens sex drive goes up when she gets older.

Most older women are like we older men , the catch of a younger man to them makes them feel good and in their minds they still have what it takes , as with men catching a younger woman , we are not happy with our own age or near our age .

For me I go for guys my age who are energic not ready for the retirement. I have worked all my life and I now want fun. I want to get out and do things. I'm not ready for the rocking chair just yet.

Best post yet! I for one like intelligent compassionate woman, younger gals seem to need more time to grow up! I like a woman that loves life and lives for the moment!

There are older women who think that younger means stronger libidos or affirmation, I have found that women my age range and older have had incredible libidos and appreciate their intimacy more than inexperienced younger men.

Only a 50ish woman who has or had a younger man, and willing to answer truthfully can answer that?

As I gently wander into this forum - first time poster - forgive me for not reading every post so if I redundate, blast away.

I was blessed as a teen to have met and been seduced by some graciously gorgeous experienced women from 30 to, yes, 67. They rocked me and taught me, scolded me and spanked me.

Sexually it was igniting and exhilarating, rocketing and draining and breath-taking.

Emotionally, it ****ed me into my 40's. I was their tool, a flesh and big bone *****.

But no more so than my friends and siblings who stayed on more traditional relationship paths.

Look, we **** who we **** because it makes for the best ****. If someone you wanna **** wants to **** someone else - find a new desire. Not everyone is everyone else's cup of tea. Get a new teaball, Francis, and stay in the game.

or quit and start knitting...

not all women do but the younger guys loved us older women

love is such a harsh word. I would say we lust for y'all.

After I got divorced, I expected to see at least a few single women out there that were still in shape. Was I sadly mistaken about that. I'm still the same weight that I was when I was 25. Most of them only remembered what weight they were when they were 25. The ones that still were, were after the younger guys. Oh, sure, the fat ones were nice enough, but it did nothing to stimulate my libido. Since the fat ones didn't fit on my bike, some came with health issues associated with their weight, and all the talking in the world didn't excite me, I decided to stick to my own pursuits, and not bother with dating. I'll just pass the time here in the forums.

I say , go for whatever makes you happy , I date younger women because I can and a lot of women my age date younger men as well . You have to be with someone who you are attracted to

I am an older male,I don't know,in my case it is mostly young girls wanting my email; hardly anyone else and most are not local to me.

I don't match those young ones, in my experience they just want to send you to some sex site.

I get three to four messages a day from profiles with an attractive young woman claiming to be 20 something. My settings limit is women over 50 yet they keep coming. If it's a woman then she's, most likely, wanting money and has somehow fooled the system into saying she's 20 something but the software reads she's over 50. Unless that feature doesn't really work. I assume it's a guy posing as a woman trying to get money out of me. Either way I ignore them.