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Topic: How Happy Are You In Your Current Relationship
Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Thu 03/05/15 01:07 PM
On a scale of 1-10 my relationship is a -5 meaning that my ex is an abusive jerk.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48913	Thu 03/05/15 01:38 PM
On a scale of 1-10 my relationship is a -5 meaning that my ex is an abusive jerk. What a coincidence. My ex is an abusive jerk, too. It's amazing how members of both genders can be abusive jerks.

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Thu 03/05/15 01:47 PM
I guess it could happen on your planet. I just don't believe in the idea that women are just as abusive as men..why?, for one, history tells another story, and men got to write history, and still they are the bad ones throughout. Come on, it doesn't add up to say women are that way too. More likely when you look at the big picture, is that women who are called abusive jerks are actually just being blamed for responding to one. I know I shouldn't say this, because good women aren't supposed to say these things...but where has that ever got us?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48913	Thu 03/05/15 01:57 PM
I just don't believe in the idea that women are just as abusive as men... Come on, it doesn't add up to say women are that way too. The scar that my ex put on my left arm during one of her rage episodes says otherwise. I'm sure that the next male to end up with her would agree with me, because she shot him. By the way, my ex also practiced misandry, which in itself is a form of abuse.

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Thu 03/05/15 01:59 PM Edited by tealbreeze on Thu 03/05/15 02:01 PM
I just don't believe in the idea that women are just as abusive as men... Come on, it doesn't add up to say women are that way too. The scar that my ex put on my left arm during one of her rage episodes says otherwise. I'm sure that the next male to end up with her would agree with me, because she shot him. By the way, my ex also practiced misandry, which in itself is a form of abuse. eh, you people should just knock it off. Some people have been through worse...Get over it.

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Thu 03/05/15 02:00 PM Edited by Pinkbunny43 on Thu 03/05/15 02:04 PM
I guess it could happen on your planet. I just don't believe in the idea that women are just as abusive as men..why?, for one, history tells another story, and men got to write history, and still they are the bad ones throughout. Come on, it doesn't add up to say women are that way too. More likely when you look at the big picture, is that women who are called abusive jerks are actually just being blamed for responding to one. I know I shouldn't say this, because good women aren't supposed to say these things...but where has that ever got us? ......OP asked about your current relationship....an ex is not current.......hence the term ex....... I'm sure we all have some sort of "scar" from a past relationship.......it is what you learned from it that matters.....and if you didn't learn you will continue to attract the same again......get over it, move on and I guarantee you'll be happier and maybe attract something better!

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Thu 03/05/15 02:02 PM
10.... ..... But our goal is 20....

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Thu 03/05/15 02:05 PM Edited by Estelle79 on Thu 03/05/15 02:09 PM
To the being from another planet.. That is strange because using violence is not typically a feminine trait. To the one who said ex's are not allowed, I wish it were that simple.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48913	Thu 03/05/15 02:10 PM Edited by Dodo_David on Thu 03/05/15 02:13 PM
Folks, I merely pointed out that being an abusive jerk isn't a trait that is exclusive to men. Anyway, I agree that the OP is rather odd, considering that not many forum participants currently have significant others. Also, I apologize for stirring the pot in this thread.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Thu 03/05/15 02:18 PM
I guess it could happen on your planet. I just don't believe in the idea that women are just as abusive as men..why?, for one, history tells another story, and men got to write history, and still they are the bad ones throughout. Come on, it doesn't add up to say women are that way too. More likely when you look at the big picture, is that women who are called abusive jerks are actually just being blamed for responding to one. I know I shouldn't say this, because good women aren't supposed to say these things...but where has that ever got us?

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Thu 03/05/15 02:24 PM
I can say 0 as I'm not in a relationship. Apparently not relationship material.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Thu 03/05/15 02:28 PM
I can say 0 as I'm not in a relationship. Apparently not relationship material. they usually say that after using you

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48913	Thu 03/05/15 02:29 PM
Getting back to the first post, I wonder what motivated the OP to write it, because most site members (that I know of) aren't in a relationship.

bhulce Joined Fri 02/27/15 Posts: 62	Thu 03/05/15 02:31 PM
I am not in a relationship. Haven't been in one for a long time now

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Thu 03/05/15 02:34 PM
I can say 0 as I'm not in a relationship. Apparently not relationship material. they usually say that after using you That is true, it's hard to know a man's intentions until it's too late.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Thu 03/05/15 02:38 PM
I can say 0 as I'm not in a relationship. Apparently not relationship material. they usually say that after using you That is true, it's hard to know a man's intentions until it's too late. It's hard to know a womans intentions too, until she screws you left right & centre

Foursure Joined Fri 01/09/15 Posts: 3231	Thu 03/05/15 02:43 PM
On a scale of 1-10..where 10 is extremely happy.. How happy are you in your current relationship? Because happiness is paramount in every relationship. Though sometimes one might have to sacrifice your happiness a little for the greater good (happiness of your partner), that should be a mutual thing. Both should be willing to contribute to the happiness of the other. No matter what the differences may be.. A common ground can always be reached (most of the time). Because truth is relationships will always have difficult times.. Just the way rain is inevitable.. Buh one can always get a better umbrella. Wish you all the best in your endeavors NIce to see your 'rock solid' thoughts on this. One minute anything can be resolved by mutual effort and consideration and next thing you are out looking for a new umbrella!!! I just hope you will invest in some heavy duty galoshes ...

Foursure Joined Fri 01/09/15 Posts: 3231	Thu 03/05/15 02:44 PM
I can say 0 as I'm not in a relationship. Apparently not relationship material. oh scoob I disagree - lots of ppl just love brown velvet material

Quintessentially Joined Fri 02/20/15 Posts: 1382	Thu 03/05/15 02:50 PM
No relationship here and not for a long time. Doing a good 8.5 on my own though but I would like a cuddle every now and then.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21249	Thu 03/05/15 02:52 PM
I can say 0 as I'm not in a relationship. Apparently not relationship material. they usually say that after using you That is true, it's hard to know a man's intentions until it's too late. It's hard to know a womans intentions too, until she screws you left right & centre Yup... Live, learn, and move on.