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Topic: 3 things..
no1phD's photo
Sun 03/15/15 12:30 PM
that your partner needs to be able to do....well.... at least two of them.. really well.. that will let you overlooked the third thing..

..4 me..
. a great sense of humor
. knows how to keep a house.
.. very expressive. in the bedroom.
.ie.. no sexual hangups.. gives and takes... very healthy . sexual appetite..

.. and if I had to sacrifice one of those it would be ..great sense of humor...
... I could live without her having a great sense of humor....and no not just when we're in the bedroom..haha..ha..as long as she cracked a smile every now and then...
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 03/15/15 12:39 PM
Matching interests and appetite in bed
Sense of humour
Gone through a great deal of personal development & growth

Overlook one... I can't. These three are not negotiable ... I need all 3 in a man. Otherwise I'm gonna stay single, no joke.

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Sun 03/15/15 12:39 PM

that your partner needs to be able to do....well.... at least two of them.. really well.. that will let you overlooked the third thing..

..4 me..
. a great sense of humor
. knows how to keep a house.
.. very expressive. in the bedroom.
.ie.. no sexual hangups.. gives and takes... very healthy . sexual appetite..

.. and if I had to sacrifice one of those it would be ..great sense of humor...
... I could live without her having a great sense of humor....and no not just when we're in the bedroom..haha..ha..as long as she cracked a smile every now and then...
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no1phD's photo
Sun 03/15/15 12:41 PM
Hmm.. I should have put baking down..
.. as one of my three...
.. I would love to have a partner that could bake really well... Like cakes strudels... pineapple upside down cake yummy..mmm..... oh well too late..lol

no1phD's photo
Sun 03/15/15 12:44 PM

Matching interests and appetite in bed
Sense of humour
Gone through a great dea
l of personal development & growth

Overlook one... I can't. These three are not negotiable ... I need all 3 in a man. Otherwise I'm gonna stay single, no joke.
..ok.. but which one could you live without..
.. that is they still possess that quality they're just not that great at it..
.... for instance they're good in bed but not great...
..... but for the sake of exercise you need to pick one.
.. its hard it really makes you choose... makes you think out of the 3 which one are you willing to give up.... like for me sense of humor is important but not as important as keeping a good house....
. but it makes my top 3 on my list

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no1phD's photo
Sun 03/15/15 12:47 PM
perhaps Wonder Woman..flowerforyou ..
I can't pick up your quote..oops .
....hmm.. but you do have a really good sense of humor..:thumbsup:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 03/15/15 01:00 PM


Matching interests and appetite in bed
Sense of humour
Gone through a great dea
l of personal development & growth

Overlook one... I can't. These three are not negotiable ... I need all 3 in a man. Otherwise I'm gonna stay single, no joke.
..ok.. but which one could you live without..
.. that is they still possess that quality they're just not that great at it..
.... for instance they're good in bed but not great...
..... but for the sake of exercise you need to pick one.
.. its hard it really makes you choose... makes you think out of the 3 which one are you willing to give up.... like for me sense of humor is important but not as important as keeping a good house....
. but it makes my top 3 on my list

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To me keeping a good house is not nearly as important as a sense of humour! Not even close ...
I honestly cannot live without any of these three in a man .. I could compromise if he hadn't gone through a great deal of personal growth yet, but was still working on that. But that's it.

Been with men who couldn't keep me happy in bed.. the only good thing that came out of that is that I now am writing a book about my fantasies as opposed to living them, hahaha. But... if he can't keep me happy, I rather stay single, keep myself happy and pump out another sexy book laugh

A man without humour, no way in he||!! Wouldn't even date such a guy a 2nd time. Prolly walk out during the first.


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Sun 03/15/15 01:03 PM

perhaps Wonder Woman..flowerforyou ..
I can't pick up your quote..oops .
....hmm.. but you do have a really good sense of humor..:thumbsup:


no1phD's photo
Sun 03/15/15 01:10 PM
Edited by no1phD on Sun 03/15/15 01:11 PM
Ok... see there's the thing..
.. a sense of humor is important.
. but not as important as keeping a good house....to.me... I won't find her very funny if I come home and the house is in ruins...lol...
.... I through this topic up in rather a bit of a hurry
.hmm.. but the more I think on it..
..hmm... there are so many things that could make the top list of three..
.... I thought sex might be the most important but not really....
... for some if their partner can't cook for instance.... that might be more important than sex...
... if they don't manage money well..
that might be more important than cooking..
..... but yes crystal you need to pick one.... that is what makes this interesting.... what are the three you need but what one would you do without.... again.. they can still do the third one there just not great at it...
.... but pick.ONE.LOL



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no1phD's photo
Sun 03/15/15 01:12 PM


perhaps Wonder Woman..flowerforyou ..
I can't pick up your quote..oops .
....hmm.. but you do have a really good sense of humor..:thumbsup:


..yes you..lol... felt as though I was being led down the garden path so to speak... you are a rascal.lol

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Sun 03/15/15 01:17 PM

Ok... see there's the thing..
.. a sense of humor is important.
. but not as important as keeping a good house....to.me... I won't find her very funny if I come home and the house is in ruins...lol...
.... I through this topic up in rather a bit of a hurry
.hmm.. but the more I think on it..
..hmm... there are so many things that could make the top list of three..
.... I thought sex might be the most important but not really....
... for some if their partner can't cook for instance.... that might be more important than sex...
... if they don't manage money well..
that might be more important than cooking..
..... but yes crystal you need to pick one.... that is what makes this interesting.... what are the three you need but what one would you do without.... again.. they can still do the third one there just not great at it...
.... but pick.ONE.LOL


A GSOH is more important to me than a spotless house.
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no1phD's photo
Sun 03/15/15 01:21 PM
ok you and your guessing game..lol
. use your big words spell it out for us..
Lmao... you're such a tease..mmmmm

msharmony's photo
Sun 03/15/15 01:26 PM
hmmm,, there is no thing or things that make me overlook other things if those things are my boundaries

so Im not sure how to answer the question

I forgive anything
I don't put up with EVERYTHING though

things I can forgive but not put up with are
,,continued infidelity
..continued physical assault
...continuous lying or disrespect,,,,

no1phD's photo
Sun 03/15/15 01:29 PM
Ok. so the question is..lol

. what three things do you desire in a partner..
. and out of those three..lol
. which one can you overlook or do without...omg..slaphead ..
... it's a complicated question yes but it's not that complicated...laugh

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no photo
Sun 03/15/15 01:29 PM
3 Things I would want, or hope for.....

His character....is he kind, does he have compassion

Is he dependable.....can I rely on him, will he be there for me

Can he show emotion........able to express himself

no1phD's photo
Sun 03/15/15 01:31 PM
thanks bunny perfect drinker now which one of those three can you do without..?..laugh

msharmony's photo
Sun 03/15/15 01:35 PM
I require

confidence
humility
God fearing


I don't think can do without any of the three

no1phD's photo
Sun 03/15/15 01:37 PM
Edited by no1phD on Sun 03/15/15 01:39 PM
.ok.. I don't have my new glasses yet..lol
. but I'm pretty sure it says you need to.. pick one out of the three that you are willing to do without..lmao..
I get the feeling you women are trying to wine. wine me me me up..lmfao.... great now you got me .stu stu stutt stuttering again..
frustrated frustrated sad slaphead winking winking

no photo
Sun 03/15/15 01:43 PM
Not a single one.....I understand what your topic is about, but I am not going to settle for less than what I deserve. If I used your choices, which had really nothing to do with who they are as a person, the decision would be as simple as you made it. I chose characteristics of who they are rather than the things that they can do(cleaning, cooking, sex), that stuff can be learned through the relationship, but who they are is who they are. Sorry just my opinion.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 03/15/15 01:49 PM
Doh ... whinging fart, lol, there's me thinking you were easy to please ...

I'll have to rephrase my 3 wishes then, as I really can not compromise on those.

So round two:
Matching interests and appetite in bed
Sense of humour
Can fix and repair things in and around the house

One I can overlook: can fix and repair things around the house (we can hire someone to do that if need be ...)

Now please don't be a git and gracefully accept my offer. I have complied with your demands flowerforyou

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