Topic: who face difficulties while starting new conversation
bikaaa666's photo
Sun 04/19/15 05:34 AM
if you are good ,,then give some tips....:smile:

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Sun 04/19/15 06:27 AM
i have this problem if i don't have some kind of clue already that the person is interested or if i don't have an obvious excuse.

bikaaa666's photo
Sun 04/19/15 06:39 AM
I hope someone helps you ,,,because ,,people are really nice here with lot of different amazing skills

TMommy's photo
Sun 04/19/15 06:48 AM
look at her interests and try to talk about them
does she like camping and you love it also?
how about movies? music interests? does she love to go on vacation and her pics show her in Florida and you have been there? talk about that
does she like to bike ride or is she a parent you can use that as common ground

when you first speak to her make it obvious that you have indeed read her profile and paid attention

bikaaa666's photo
Sun 04/19/15 07:02 AM
thanx dear for your nice reply..i think it is so helpful....

RoamingOrator's photo
Sun 04/19/15 07:52 AM
I can always start a conversation. It's the keeping it going after I've broken some sort of ice with which I have a problem. Seems I go from amazing to boring in about 2.31 seconds and have run out of conversational topics in about 1.87 seconds.

frustrated

bikaaa666's photo
Sun 04/19/15 08:22 AM
haha...lol don't strike your head...I think many person face this problem....

metalwing's photo
Sun 04/19/15 08:26 AM
What has proven to work well is to comment in the forums and respond to someone else's comment. You have a topic to discuss. Take it from there.

no1phD's photo
Sun 04/19/15 08:53 AM

I can always start a conversation. It's the keeping it going after I've broken some sort of ice with which I have a problem. Seems I go from amazing to boring in about 2.31 seconds and have run out of conversational topics in about 1.87 seconds.

frustrated
..yes.. but it is not your fault the other person is boring.....
. I thought it was me as well... but then I realized I'm always the one starting and breaking the ice.... in conversations..... it seems when I run out of things to say the conversation ends.... forget that why do I always have to be the interesting one....
... the best conversations I've ever had.. were with somebody as interesting as myself...

TMommy's photo
Sun 04/19/15 09:03 AM


I can always start a conversation. It's the keeping it going after I've broken some sort of ice with which I have a problem. Seems I go from amazing to boring in about 2.31 seconds and have run out of conversational topics in about 1.87 seconds.

frustrated
..yes.. but it is not your fault the other person is boring.....
. I thought it was me as well... but then I realized I'm always the one starting and breaking the ice.... in conversations..... it seems when I run out of things to say the conversation ends.... forget that why do I always have to be the interesting one....
... the best conversations I've ever had.. were with somebody as interesting as myself...
uh huh uh huh sooo my good doctor what I gather then from this
is that the best conversation you have then are with yourself??huh bigsmile

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Sun 04/19/15 09:06 AM



I can always start a conversation. It's the keeping it going after I've broken some sort of ice with which I have a problem. Seems I go from amazing to boring in about 2.31 seconds and have run out of conversational topics in about 1.87 seconds.

frustrated
..yes.. but it is not your fault the other person is boring.....
. I thought it was me as well... but then I realized I'm always the one starting and breaking the ice.... in conversations..... it seems when I run out of things to say the conversation ends.... forget that why do I always have to be the interesting one....
... the best conversations I've ever had.. were with somebody as interesting as myself...
uh huh uh huh sooo my good doctor what I gather then from this
is that the best conversation you have then are with yourself??huh bigsmile


His mama's a nice lady too.. :tongue:

no1phD's photo
Sun 04/19/15 09:09 AM
Yes.. I am interesting..lol.. you're not too far from the truth.. I've had some of my best conversations in my truck alone..lol..

... A conversation takes two people..
who are both equally.. interesting..
. and can articulate themselves..
... nothing worse than pryin information from someone...

. are you know when someone's going to say something really dumb..
. and you sit there in your mind saying.. no !no don't say it !god no please don't say it... and sure enough they say it..

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