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this topic just took a sharp turn into..
.. I don't know where.. but it scares me.. 
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No, it's ok. I've always wanted children, but having a daughter, and waiting six months to be born, only to lose her 3 months later... It takes a lot out of a person. I sponsor a child in a village, somewhere near Fortaleza, Brazil. She will turn 4 next week. Helping her and her family has been a blessing for me
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Maybe you have social anxiety. Don't quote me on it. It's just maybe. i think thats somewhat true... it's kinda hard to explain, but the more beautiful women that people like me and him see, the harder it is to try to talk with them, for some reason... kind of like giving up before we even try...  Beauty usually means they are a big pain in the butt.. Shows nothing about the kind of person they are. yes, most are... but also the hotter they are, the more other guys are hitting on them, too... they have way more options than i do, so there is always the question why would they want to be with me when they have a choice of just about anyone they want to be with...   Because you are you. The easiest answer You never know what the other one is looking for so it�s worth of try. Besides you look pretty good  But I understand it, I have similar problem. It�s just about the confidence, when I am interested in someone I start looking for reasons why he wouldn�t want to be with me instead on holding up on reasons why he should. Normally I am confident enough but when it comes to these situations I�m against myself. But improving in better way, lol  well, in my defense, i should clarify that it's not just extremely beautiful women, but mainly women i feel that could be the "one" for me... the closer i feel she is to that, the harder it is for me to date her... seems like I'm cutting my own throat there... and thank you for the compliment, that's very sweet of you!  You are welcome  Yes, it has nothing to do with beauty, it is about importance we give to that person - in whatever way. As I already said to someone, I know my strengths just as well as weaknesses and am content with myself, but in relation to that person my weaknesses look so much bigger and strengths seem so tiny... And I am afraid, full of: what if? What�s the cure? I don�t know, maybe just repeat again and again to oneself the old rule: nobody is above us and nobody is under us. That�s all. |
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Edited by
Kaustuv1
on
Thu 06/25/15 09:30 AM
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I've been separated for almost 4 years. I'm open minded and outspoken at work and in public, yet i am timid when i see someone i like. It seems i make everyone laugh as i have a great sense of humor. I see guys every day with pretty ladies. I just wonder..... "Why not me"?? From whatever little experience I have gathered from living, I've realized that whenever one is upset or sad, the more 'she/he' says 'Why NOT Me'?, greater results the 'disappointment'! I feel, the best way to cope up with 'loneliness' or any other stressful situation, is by telling 'life': Come! Try Me!...: Your wait will be rewarded in due time, I'm sure. As they say: The very best are eventually gifted to them, who have shown 'patience' & 'fortitude'..... So-All The Very Best To You In This challenging Journey Of LIFE!
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