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* With some of these other topics- why not ?
 * We have all seen them? Most of us have dated at least one? Some of us married or lived with one? Some may have even raised one? What do you think ?  Vent away. |
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I thought all men were Mama's boys.
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I thought all men were Mama's boys.  No, & you may be in trouble
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I thought all men were Mama's boys. HAHAHA! |
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It's easy to tell them from real boys who has work for their own wealth.
1. Spender 2. Overly dressed (fashion flip) 3. Doesn't know anything 4. Chicken to flight Hahahaa |
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I thought all men were Mama's boys. HAHAHA! Acccchhh! Please don't encourage this possible dysfunction. The future is at stake. 
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It's easy to tell them from real boys who has work for their own wealth. 1. Spender 2. Overly dressed (fashion flip) 3. Doesn't know anything 4. Chicken to flight Hahahaa Oh.. you have a different definition than I do. I'm thinking of ones, that throw dirty clothes on the floor & say " what's for dinner? "... because electronical appliances terrify them....  because mommy did it all for them.
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I think it annoys a lot of women because they want to be the most important woman in your life and to a certain extent I fit your definition because my mother is good at organising things and I'm not very organised.
I admit it. I don't care as much about things like housework as women do and what tends to happen is that they seen to think that I expect them to do it, when the truth is that you can hardly stop them and pushing a hoover around isn't a priority for me, so they might come into my house and find some dirty dishes and that's enough for them to start an argument about how you're a slob and a mama's boy, rather than just a normal guy that doesn't live in a world of pot poirets and scented candles. |
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Married one but had him sorted
Within 3weeks. Was frustrating but i look back now haha I was not going to be his mummy. Did not train one has he needed to be the man of the house and look after his future family. |
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how do Mama boys get that way ??
they are raised up by over-possessive, over-doting, over-bearing Mothers who have plenty of psychological problems of their own... |
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I have only dated one mama's boy and I ran pretty quickly...
He couldn't make a decision without consulting him mother first.. To me there is such a huge difference in the Mama's boys and daddy's girls' Now men that honour and try to take care of their mothers are a blessing.. My son calls me out of the blue to tell me Hey mom thinking of you Love ya.... Shares part of his wild game meat with me. If he knows that I am putting up a fence etc he will try to make arrangements to help me etc... So in a sense I guess I have a couple of mama's boys that they try to watch out for me, they love me and they are my friends. I love and cherish each one of my sons and I love the way they are such great family men with their wives. I also am very proud of how my sons treat their wives... |
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how do Mama boys get that way ?? they are raised up by over-possessive, over-doting, over-bearing Mothers who have plenty of psychological problems of their own... Sounds like the ex mum in law but fixed her too Could it be him being the youngest have something to do with it? |
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I couldn't tolerate a mommy's boy who had to check with mummy before he made any decisions, and he needed a lot of mothering. that would drive me crazy, I want a man who doesn't need to keep running to mommy.
of course he must love and see his mother and family, but there's a huge difference. |
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Don't think I've ever dated one or been involved with one.
And I sure as he|| didn't raise me one. Even though my son and I are very close, and has no problem telling me he loves me, and we hug each time we see each other. But no way does he run to me for whatever and no way can I tell him what to do or not. Wouldn't want that either. I'm too independent myself to be that kind of mother. |
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I couldn't tolerate a mommy's boy who had to check with mummy before he made any decisions, and he needed a lot of mothering. that would drive me crazy, I want a man who doesn't need to keep running to mommy. of course he must love and see his mother and family, but there's a huge difference. Totally agree with you sister if he can't make a decision without mummy. I want a man that knows what he wants. No games, be straight up, I was told years ago if he looks after his family he will look after you. Watch how he treats his mum is how he will treat you. I passed this advice on to my kids. I also told them treat them well, lift the bar up high so if you break up, they will regret it and think yeah they were good to me. I also told them don't be a walk over. If they do that walk away with pride that you have done your best |
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how do Mama boys get that way ?? they are raised up by over-possessive, over-doting, over-bearing Mothers who have plenty of psychological problems of their own... True.. as I said in opening , some of us might of raised one. I think country, culture, religion... the way we are raised are big factors as well. |
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Edited by
debbie1980
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Tue 07/21/15 11:09 AM
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I couldn't tolerate a mommy's boy who had to check with mummy before he made any decisions, and he needed a lot of mothering. that would drive me crazy, I want a man who doesn't need to keep running to mommy. of course he must love and see his mother and family, but there's a huge difference. Totally agree with you sister if he can't make a decision without mummy. I want a man that knows what he wants. No games, be straight up, I was told years ago if he looks after his family he will look after you. Watch how he treats his mum is how he will treat you. I passed this advice on to my kids. I also told them treat them well, lift the bar up high so if you break up, they will regret it and think yeah they were good to me. I also told them don't be a walk over. If they do that walk away with pride that you have done your best I agree  By what my female friends have told me, mommy's boys are often the only child. |
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Don't think I've ever dated one or been involved with one. And I sure as he|| didn't raise me one. Even though my son and I are very close, and has no problem telling me he loves me, and we hug each time we see each other. But no way does he run to me for whatever and no way can I tell him what to do or not. Wouldn't want that either. I'm too independent myself to be that kind of mother. One of the nicest posts I've read in ages. There's nothing wrong with telling your mum you love her or giving her a hug. I bet your son is more of a man than most can ever dream of being. |
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Why do you say so dear?
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I thought all men were Mama's boys. HAHAHA! Why do you say so dear? |
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