Yes, I know that the lack of a photo is a drawback (I'm working on that). Aside from the missing picture, what are your impressions?

Thanks in advance.

Your blurb is okay. You obviously have decent English language skills which is a rarity and a plus. However, you really should give the reader a better sense of what you seek in a companion.

The lack of a photos is a dealbreaker. You're not getting anywhere without a few photos. What the hell does you're working on it mean? It is almost 2016. There are NO EXCUSES for not having photos available to upload.

Thanks for the feedback Waterloo. "...working on it" means that I'm still trying to find a camera that I can sneak up on.

OK seriously, I was never planning on being "on the market" again, so I'm still "ramping up" for this. I'll have a picture up pretty quickly, but it's not going to be something half-@$$ed just to get something up there, I'm going to have to be happy with it - and (for me) that's easier said than done.

Thanks also for suggesting that I be more specific in what I'm looking for - I'd completely overlooked that.

you seem fun...and I'm very disappointed you are not Prince Charming...

For me chuck in a photo and you will be sweet
You come across as a fun loving guy who likes adventure.

Good luck with your search

Thanks ladies - you RAWK!!

Err,..about your heading...seriously?
:-) :-) :-) :-)

is the reason you got no pic up
because you are still married
looking for casual fun?




just wondering...

Heh. Anyone who looks at my profile can tell that I enjoy the occasional shot of adrenaline (I rode the SkyCoaster at Royal Gorge a few years back) - but there's a BIG difference between an "occasional shot of adrenaline" & mortal terror...

Besides - one of the things that I always try to keep in mind is:

"You get to choose your actions - but you get little-to-no input on the *consequences* of those actions!"

(NOTE: Good video of what the SkyCoaster experience was like - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3f7xzTNlb9M)

Yeah, I'll probably change it pretty soon. I was amused by the fact that the feature was even available, & feeling like a smart-aleck at the time, so I went with it.

Avoiding the question isn't answering.

Avoiding the question?? I think you're reading too much into it. I listed 'Separated' in my profile, & that's the appropriate status. If you seem to think you have some special "insight" into my situation, then by all means, spout forth, o "enlightened one".

Very witty as well lol

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Well that's more easier lol

"OK, what the heck... HIT ME! ;)"

The last man who said that here got what he wanted.

Wow, I didn't expect anyone to "resurrect" this thread!



Awww, thanks babypanda_ca!!




HEY!!! SOME of those words are even complimentary!! Thanks Alodiaaa! (And, I plead the Fifth to one or two of those...)



YOW... If that's how Mingle women get dates, I'd better keep my helmet on...

Thanks for the feedback everyone, I'll probably be making some changes to my profile within the next couple of days.

HEY!!! SOME of those words are even complimentary!! Thanks Alodiaaa! (And, I plead the Fifth to one or two of those...)


Haha, you sound cool tho

Your profile comes across as fun and there is plenty to chat about.

Though I am still unclear regarding what it is you are seeking. If you are not interested in a relationship, booty-call or marriage what does that leave? I presume by stating casual you want something more physical than friendship?

Is there a difference in booty-call and casual?

Am I the only one who is confused?

:)

Cool, thank you!



That leaves (speaking in a South Park "Cartman" voice) 'Make me a sammich!'
(KIDDING!! I'm KIDDING!!!)



Errrrr... In my MIND there is, but apparently not to everyone...

'Casual' to me is non-physical.

To put it a bit differently, from my mid-teens until my mid-twenties, I knew several girls that I'd spent a lot of non-sexual time with. We razzed the crap out of each other, dogged each other mercilessly about nearly everything, & supported each other when the inevitable breakups occurred. As a result, I got used to being able to make jokes about boobs/"internal plumbing"/cycles/etc. while taking an endless ration of crap about guy-related stuff like 'being clueless'/'being eternally horny'/erectile dysfunction/etc.

Of course THEN "real life" intervened, I moved to two different states (NOT at the same time, you idjit!) and things have never been the same since.

Hell, maybe they never will be again...


Probably not. I honestly appreciate the reply, because I never would've anticipated that it would be interpreted that way.

I've made a couple of small changes to my profile, still thinking about how to phrase some of the other stuff.

Maybe it is more the combination "fun and casual", that's how I would describe a 'relationship' I had with a guy where we went out on the town with our separate mates, then hooked up at the end of the night on a regular basis (regular being 3-4 times a week). Then he would hang out with my mates if his weren't out and visa versa. It got to the point where all our mates were hanging out so hooking up was becoming inevitable. When I suggested we actually start dating he wasn't up for it, but we continued as we were for another 3 months after that. During the whole process, if either of us went home with someone else neither of us were bothered, though all of our friends thought it strange as they considered us to be a couple, but "fun and casual" is what it was all about.

So to summarise, it was more than a booty-call but less than a relationship.

If it is a good fun friendship you want, maybe those are the words you should use?