All I want is a sweet, caring, country guy that is around my age. Instead of that, I'm getting old and creepy

yea, same here... i'll i get is these stupid young women emailing me, i had to raise the age limit to stop this...

Because they're wearing camouflage, haha

And what did you raise the age too cause I'm sure you're old enough to be my dad

Ummmm, look in the country?

country type concerts?rodeos?country bars?That's where i'd look if i was looking

*hears banjos*

Oh. So, what happened to your baby's father?

you have to ask?

perhaps he was lacking in the sweet and caring department and she had him shipped out of country..

You're getting only old and creepy guys?
That is odd indeed.
I thought we were all hiding out in a corn field...or sumpin.

because you live in the middle of effing nowhere. (googled your spot)
because men do not wish to raise other guy´s Kids?
because you are currently racking up huge piles of debt with your college thing?

If "caring" means something along the lines of "be the breadwinner while i have no job but a kid to feed"...

Nope.
Noe Nope Nope.

congrats hon on going for that degree
take care of you
take care of that baby

the right man will find his way into your life

don't force it
it will happen when it happens





and unless you come from wealthy parents
all of us rack up debt going to college

Haha yea you're right about me living in the middle of no where but the rest not so much. The debt thing, no debt cause it's grants honey. And if by raising another mans kid you mean being a father figure and treat the kid like their own then yea you're right. Just because I have a kid and am going to college doesn't mean I'm unemployed laying around doing nothing cause in reality, I'm working full time, taking care of my daughter and going to school part time. Maybe you shouldn't assume

Was excited to have a baby but when she was born didn't want to take care of her and ever since we broke up in January he hasn't wanted to even see her

Good on you stick with your goals
Believe in yourself.
Welcome to mingle and all the best with your search.
I put off having a man until I have done all my uni stuff as sometimes men can distract you from your goal

Surely it's the short ones that are harder to find

All the best with your search

Ok I don't go for Dogging on a young woman but if you were my daughter and you put up this profile, and I saw it I think I would burst into tears first and then go to your home and ask you have you lost your mind?

There are personal photos you share with close friends and loved ones and there are photos you put on a public profile seen all over the world by all kinds of people; including future employers.
There is only one that qualifies.

And none of them include you spread eagle with an infant between your legs and a lot hanging out or your place looking a wreck is not it.

Why would anyone think you are a responsible self supporting college student? Is there a photo of you in work clothes, carrying a study bag, or looking like a future professional? Or a responsible Mother? You want to have a traditional husband provider then what did you do to show you would make a comfortable livable home life? A farm wife is a big job. Do you know anything about farming or the chores that go with it? Photos are worth a thousand words. Yours are not saying really nice things about you.

Many people; especially men, are very touchy about putting childrens' pictures up on a date site and I would error on the very conservative side.

I know it is not realistic for you to look like Mrs. Ward Cleaver, being a single mom is tough for sure, and guys know what real life looks like; especially peer age single dad's but surely you can figure out that whining about a poor reception to this unflattering profile is not going to up your odds.

Bashing and ex for not sticking around is going to sound like sour grapes even if it is reprehensible that he didn't at least as a Dad. But dad's everywhere know how they are often crowed off the map when and infant is involved and it is not flattering that you are so eager to just pretend he did not exist. Anytime you play the victim in a situation you have to expect people to call you on your responsibility in it. Bitter pill I know.

Especially if you had a life crisis like a Spinal Cord Injury. If you want to post a personal photo I would suggest something showing you overcoming such a mountain. Be tasteful about it. People will respect that kind of strength.

Calling people Honey and laughing at them for assuming the facts you left out is hardly fair when you ask for feed back on your situation. Sometimes you just have to take the lumps that go with the free counsel. Not every one will coddle you but I think you can handle it.

Anyway Will welcome you and your little family to Mingleland. Hopefully you will glean some wisdom and lots of support as you move forward, make friends, and hopefully find someone deserving of the blessings you could share. Good Luck.

And that's fine.....just to clarify, I'm not acting as if he doesn't exist and wasn't dogging him.....the person asked what happened to him so I answered his question...for laughing at the persons comment, I was laughing at him saying I live in the middle of no where because it's TRUE!!

Idk about all that...I think it's the taller ones haha!!