Topic: How to find love when being older.
Lovelover1998's photo
Fri 11/27/15 04:00 PM
Can anyone tell me how to find love when being 68 living in south of Sweden. I am not so tall, 164 centimetres, which make things more difficult. It seems to me those I get contact with want me to come to them even they live far away. I simply cant; I dont have money to it. And themselves can of course not come without me sending them money for their travel. It is dangerous doing that....

sybariticguy's photo
Fri 11/27/15 05:48 PM

Can anyone tell me how to find love when being 68 living in south of Sweden. I am not so tall, 164 centimetres, which make things more difficult. It seems to me those I get contact with want me to come to them even they live far away. I simply cant; I dont have money to it. And themselves can of course not come without me sending them money for their travel. It is dangerous doing that....
The good news is that you are not having to line the pockets of gold diggers. As for only finding women far away you are better served limiting yourself to where you can roam as the others will cost you more than just your limited funds, Seek out social organisations,follow some new interests and you will meet more women but you need to take a more active role as internet dating is very passive and limits many people and gives the impression this is the only way to meet. If necessary find a counselor and acquire more social skills to facilitate your desire for a partner after all, the world is full of women once you learn how to assert and meet them. I prefer public places anytime to this passive media where many gals are not socially skilled and need way to much attention just to have a simple meet and greet, but of course I am not interested in passive women who need me to chat and text before a simple meet and greet as too much time invested is ill advised as chemistry and a chance to see the person in life is another issue as so many are not as they present.Be patient expect to meet many before you find someone with whom you are both in harmony.. regards

mzrosie's photo
Fri 11/27/15 08:24 PM

Can anyone tell me how to find love when being 68 living in south of Sweden. I am not so tall, 164 centimetres, which make things more difficult. It seems to me those I get contact with want me to come to them even they live far away. I simply cant; I dont have money to it. And themselves can of course not come without me sending them money for their travel. It is dangerous doing that....


I suggest you join a dating site that cater to senior singles in Sweden.

no photo
Wed 12/30/15 06:51 PM
Dear friend, love is blind and you can find is everywhere as long as you're looking, I am a 50 years young male but love dating over 80 bisexual, the are beautiful.
Keep on looking

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Wed 12/30/15 06:56 PM
Hello young woman who lie to you that you are old? you are 8 years older than me, at my age I prefer dating over my age older women and again I prefer bisexual old women, you're only young you are beautiful..
I live in the United States.:heart:

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Wed 12/30/15 07:02 PM
NO, NO, NO... money have nothing to with relationship and marriage it is about care," CARING " I will suggest that you stop using the verb love<<<<< it send negative vibe tell a woman you want her...

Spike1964's photo
Mon 01/11/16 10:03 AM
Edited by Spike1964 on Mon 01/11/16 10:04 AM
Yeah right keep dreaming the older you get the more money you need it's a fact.

Smartazzjohn's photo
Mon 01/11/16 12:15 PM
Maybe I should start a new dating site...
OldBrokeDudesDotcom

It would have to be free for old guys but women would have to pay to join. laugh

TMommy's photo
Mon 01/11/16 07:25 PM
uh huh...good luck with that one bigsmile

RustyKitty's photo
Tue 01/12/16 08:51 AM
I suppose you won't find someone sitting at home.... go out and volunteer somewhere.. different places... get a part time job, take a class/course, take up a hobby that gets you out and about...
Good luck.

 Maria195's photo
Tue 01/12/16 03:56 PM
I agree with RustyKitty