Narcissistic tendencies as in it being all about them.. sex only when they want it..(example)..The need for approval and being best or above others..
maybe it’s just a personality disorder..

Long distance relationships work for a while but perhaps you are only seeing each other for a couple days or perhaps weeks at a time.. then you don’t see them for a month or maybe 3 months then you see them for a couple weeks.. the breaks between seeing each other... this does not allow you to really get to know someone ..it’s like you are Company so they are on best behaviour.. To get to really know someone you have to live with them..I wouldn’t do it again..

Ivegotgirth-no stampede this year due to COVID..

Yes unfortunately it took some time to finally surface!!

4 intermittent years people...4 years..

Circadian Rhythms... gets me awake at the same time every morning, even on weekends... and makes me tired at night..

the best scenario I see is that you would be 'tolerated' at best.. you will not change their minds.. move on.

bah, one of those eh? good for you. envy ensues..
jk

I make a list, then wait for the flyers/sales.. one store has a 10/10 on some items..some items are buy one, get one free.. I can shop any day of the week

I happened across a news show on tv today... they spoke about the 'Evangelical' vote in Florida and how the churches got the people out to vote and were on social media a lot as well.. and that going forward they were going to encourage more religious people to vote.. turns out it was a religious news channel..

well, there ya go... when you least expect it! congratulations, I hope you have many good years ahead of you.

the digitizing idea is appreciated! Thank you

NO.. and I won't be either.

Maybe that works in your culture.. but in North America.. not so much.. Having a child is no guarantee that they will 'look after you' in your old age..

first world problems..

I'm not wonderwoman, but I can do things that make you wonder

I give out cans of pop

pictures from my parents youth (from the 40's/50's/60's) and their early years together; my youth - all those xmas pictures..; large framed portraits of various family members - great grand parents, grandparents, family when children are babies then youth.. Then there is the plethora of holiday pictures - boats, flowers, castles, fish, etc...
There is more than a trunkfull of it all.. I've already got large see-thru tubs for each child (which I'm going to give to them); a tub for myself and another for my deceased husband/familys pictures/ancestors..
Not tomorrow.. but in many years to come my solution will be to bury them in the family lot..somehow accessible
maybe this should be in the what makes you weird thread..

yea.. me neither.. but who knows what the coming week(s) will bring. I'm not saying she's not talking to me (yet).. just that she's been uncommunicative since I told her I wasn't interested.. which has not been the norm.. I'm thinking she's perhaps offended? that I wouldn't support her - read (buy from her upline, etc.))..
O well.. like BlueGrass said.. perhaps a 'fair weather friend'.. but I've known her for 20 years (neighbor kinda). She will come around I'm sure.. just wonder how long it will take..

How do you feel about your friend giving you the feeling of being pushed to be supportive of their endeavour to raise money/have income? After checking out after her first inquiry, I googled it... found it wasn't for me and told her so.. twice after that she forwarded me links etc with the MLM information.. Had to tell her twice, and even explain why I wasn't interested.. that it wasn't for me, but good luck..
She sent me a link on facebook to 'share', which I did... and I haven't heard from her since.. (where she used to communicate almost daily)