alot of ladies have trolled past my profile....
they view it and am notified.....but they live no messages behind!!!!!
what could that mean????
Is my profile too much for them??

Yeah...That's it

Most men do not even bother to read my profile. Just look at the pictures and ask me my name and where I live and that if the first things I mention in my profile. But of course most of them are scammers anyway and do not care who you are.

Your amazing profile scared them thinking they are unworthy I get that all the time myself lol.

The fact that a woman looked at your profile doesn't necessarily mean that she wanted to start a relationship with you.

Sometimes the women look at your profile to find out what kind of person would write whatever it is that you posted in the forums.

Maybe they are just bored because they are waiting for the weather report to come on. Reading profiles means nothing about interest. You ask for that putting in the "rate" request forum. Maybe they are practicing their typing. Or trying to look busy for the boss.

Maybe you don't sound like all that and a bag of chips. Have degree and no real estate why would anyone want your school debt and have to share their space? Already report you have been dumped a couple times. Must be a reason. If the best you can offer is your "stamina" they can get that anywhere. Looks like you are "Bogarting" all the party materials. Fresh Prince of BelAir you are not.

Just so you aren't confused this is an epic fail as a profile.

Really? I dnt think so

Hahahaha,am imagining like your profile says you are lisa.
Then a dude texts you saying..
"hey lisa whats your name"

If women are not impressed by your profile, then the problem is with your profile.

From the bottom of my heart,i wana thank you for being xo friendly,understanding on here. U always make me feel at home

Hahahahaha,u get that too?

I hate t wen they troll n go. Its like going to church and say no prayer at all

If you post a thread asking people to rate your profile, you really shouldn't argue with the people offering their opinion. You did ask for it after all.

Sorry to say I agree with PS48.
You want a relationship but all you can talk about is fancying older ladies and sex. Sounds more like you want the physical and nothing else.

As for saying you need someone to move in with... you are joking right? This isn't even a third date conversation never mind an opening gambit!

I'd take a lot of the stuff off your profile. Can't say for certain which parts should stay, so maybe you will be better off deleting it all and starting again?

As for your interests - what about things other than clinging to your lady and slobbering all over her 24/7. You must have hobbies while you are single? By all means say you believe you know how to treat a lady and you are affectionate, but we don't need all the details about hair etc.

Take out the text speak too. It is off putting (especially when you flip from one mode to another) and can make reading a profile a head ache.

You want people to get to the end of your blurb! And to get there and still be interested.

If I hadn't been 'rating your profile' I would have stopped at the second "interest".

Hope you get it sorted soon and will have better results in your online search.

Looks like I have a not-so-secret admirer

Run Nancy Run.

LOL cute gals.

In all honesty...yes...it is too much man...
I believe a profile has to be a well written....not text speak...a slightly humorous piece that also tells the reader something meaningful about you....
It must make the reader say to herself...hmmmm...I'm going to write to this guy...

Looking deeper into this....I feel the way it is written stems from your cultural background...

For several years I have worked 11 hours per day up to 6 days per week side by side with Aussies, Kiwis, Filipinos, Chinese and Somalis...
I have been here in Mingle for over 18 months now and correspond with guys and girls from 6 different cultures continually....and I am also a poster in other international forums that cover the subjects of gadgets, cars and general interest...

Over time you develop a keen understanding of the way they all not only speak English but their unique interpretations of the language and how it is spoken....and the way they all see the world....

For instance....the Chinese are very quiet and will only speak when spoken to, all the time observing...
The Filipinos are very happy and loud, chattering and laughing...very open...
The Somalis are very quiet, but with a sense of indifference....

We see it here and I see it in the other forums as well the African guys see themselves as more superior...as having more stamina and virility than men from other cultures...even to the extent of stating it in posts...

Well we all know this isn't true, but it is a perception that is a widespread belief among guys from your culture....
Women from other cultures will be turned off by these written displays...
They don't need to see it, that kind of thing can be proven to the women you hopefully meet and settle with...

So yeah...sorry if I'm rambling....
But a little to over the top...