Topic: No replies to messages
sybariticguy's photo
Thu 01/21/16 08:15 AM
When people do not respond that is their response as its not necessary to respond if not interested I have seen a womans site where she gets 500 responses a day and could not respond to all if she wanted. Also by the time a woman gets a response she or he may have already found a more suitable person and choose to follow that lead! Its very possible for a person to have an initial interest but find a perceived better match and then pursue them rather than you! People change their minds for many reasons and to be successful here you must learn not to take any of the initial steps seriously as many enjoy the art of social masturbation- showing fake interest only to ignore later also happens when you initially meet too. Welcome to lost etiquette and poor social skills. regards

ErotiDoug's photo
Thu 01/21/16 08:27 AM

When people do not respond that is their response as its not necessary to respond if not interested I have seen a womans site where she gets 500 responses a day and could not respond to all if she wanted. Also by the time a woman gets a response she or he may have already found a more suitable person and choose to follow that lead! Its very possible for a person to have an initial interest but find a perceived better match and then pursue them rather than you! People change their minds for many reasons and to be successful here you must learn not to take any of the initial steps seriously as many enjoy the art of social masturbation- showing fake interest only to ignore later also happens when you initially meet too. Welcome to lost etiquette and poor social skills. regards


Very well put! Smile and enjoy the hunting and trapping :banana: :banana:

TheCaptain's photo
Thu 01/21/16 10:49 AM
Why not chat with people in the forums????

adivorcedone's photo
Sun 01/24/16 12:33 PM
leave all expectations at the door....come for pleasure stay for fun...all I can say....

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 01/24/16 01:13 PM

No matter what i say rather it be a long message or short message to start conversations noone ever replies. Even the people who like/match me first.
Any advice?????



"Humans are cray-cray."

stan_147's photo
Sun 01/24/16 01:49 PM
No response is a response.

no photo
Sun 01/24/16 02:08 PM


No matter what i say rather it be a long message or short message to start conversations noone ever replies. Even the people who like/match me first.
Any advice?????



"Humans are cray-cray."



haha, somebody has already opened the can and u have already found it

no photo
Sun 01/24/16 02:09 PM

No response is a response.


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Duttoneer's photo
Mon 01/25/16 12:48 AM

No matter what i say rather it be a long message or short message to start conversations noone ever replies. Even the people who like/match me first.
Any advice?????


Best to treat no reply as a reply, because it does seem to be the way internet dating works most of the time, not that it is the right way in my opinion. If someone makes the effort to write and send me an email I will reply, but I am not receiving the high numbers of emails that some people are said to receive. If you upgrade your membership you gain the extra feature of seeing if your email was opened by the recipient, which maybe helpful to you, but it will not increase your chance of a response.

Good luck in your search.