Topic: dating trouble
tayG23's photo
Wed 03/02/16 05:59 PM
I'm always the bad guy I do everything wrong it's always something n I can't get a understanding if I cry I'm doin too much if I say how I feel I'm extra if I want him to do something for me it's a no

TMommy's photo
Wed 03/02/16 08:36 PM
maybe you dating the wrong kind of man

RustyKitty's photo
Wed 03/02/16 08:58 PM
agree, sounds like you need to find someone else.. no need to be around a narcissist..

soufiehere's photo
Wed 03/02/16 08:58 PM
So is it the guy in your pics that done you wrong?
And now you are switching teams?

You go girl :-)

no photo
Wed 03/02/16 09:22 PM
I'm always the bad guy I do everything wrong

That should make it easy then.
When you want to do something, stop, and do the exact opposite.
Or just do what other people tell you to do exactly how they tell you that you should do it.

if I cry I'm doin too much if I say how I feel I'm extra if I want him to do something for me it's a no

This is vague.

This can include everything from (sobbing) " please leave your wife! I love you!"

To "Please dress up as a clown and sleep with another man for me while I watch, it turns me on!"

To "Please stop beating me, it hurts my feelings!"

To "This is our second date, why won't you tell me you love me?!?"

sounds like you need to find someone else

Without any specifics finding someone else may not change anything and could make things worse, help reinforce things.

Especially if this:
I'm always the bad guy

is universal to every single person the op ever dated or has been in any kind of relationship with.

sparkyae5's photo
Fri 03/04/16 10:40 AM

I'm always the bad guy I do everything wrong it's always something n I can't get a understanding if I cry I'm doin too much if I say how I feel I'm extra if I want him to do something for me it's a no


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