Topic: infertility and dating
Quince1's photo
Sat 03/12/16 08:25 PM
Is there any point in dating if you can't or doubt if you can make kids?

Robxbox73's photo
Sat 03/12/16 08:55 PM
Quince,

There are many people who get married and find they are infertile. Unless you have been to a doctor, you may just be guessing. Besides, let's say you or your partner are. What if she is the love of your life? The only human being that is going to understand you and your ways.

Is dating worth it? Yes! Don't put the cart before the horse. First face your fear. Go get checked out. You may find its something that can be fixed. After that. You could aways adopt.

sybariticguy's photo
Sat 03/12/16 09:02 PM

Quince,

There are many people who get married and find they are infertile. Unless you have been to a doctor, you may just be guessing. Besides, let's say you or your partner are. What if she is the love of your life? The only human being that is going to understand you and your ways.

Is dating worth it? Yes! Don't put the cart before the horse. First face your fear. Go get checked out. You may find its something that can be fixed. After that. You could aways adopt.
In addition adoption is also another option if other options are not viable. Some folks do not want to be parents either so conversations regarding goals as a couple are needed and encouraged ... Regarding the love of your life and her being able to be the only one who understands you that is ludicrous as if it were true the odds of even meeting are astronomical as obviously more than one person could be a great match but that in no way detracts from what each person brings into any relationship...

Quince1's photo
Sun 03/13/16 12:16 PM
Talking about fears.......; am not sure about it. One of my boys kinda got lost on their way home down the valley.......though ,when the 'season' is right, fruits do fall from the tree normally.....just never had the guts to check if they have 'seeds' inside.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 03/13/16 03:32 PM
Well, you still got another boy. With the millions men produce, one boy should be more than enough.
Usually they say if you got normal bodily hair growth, you got plenty of testosterone and nothing the worry about.
I'd strongly recommend having it checked though. Just so you can relax and stop worrying. We don't want you to get problems with your 'tree' cos your worrying about shooting blanks, do we :tongue:
Maybe it'll be another 10 yrs before you impregnate a woman. Then you spent all that time worrying for nothing, maybe scr*wing up dates over nothing ... Save yourself that stress!
flowerforyou

msharmony's photo
Sun 03/13/16 03:39 PM
I'm pretty sure there are many reasons people date besides to have kids


so ,,yes,,

TMommy's photo
Tue 03/15/16 07:08 PM

Well, you still got another boy. With the millions men produce, one boy should be more than enough.
Usually they say if you got normal bodily hair growth, you got plenty of testosterone and nothing the worry about.
I'd strongly recommend having it checked though. Just so you can relax and stop worrying. We don't want you to get problems with your 'tree' cos your worrying about shooting blanks, do we :tongue:
Maybe it'll be another 10 yrs before you impregnate a woman. Then you spent all that time worrying for nothing, maybe scr*wing up dates over nothing ... Save yourself that stress!
flowerforyou

yep...ex hubby only had one boy and his equipment worked well enough to create two sons

Quince1's photo
Tue 03/15/16 09:02 PM
Thanks Tmommy
That's encouraging,,,,,, now I know it's possible,,,,,

no photo
Mon 04/18/16 06:20 PM
That does not effect sperm production. When you are ready.
Sex every 24-36 hrs, for a new swim team with normal mobility.
* One day of absence increases changes. Max 4 days for peak fertility (Israeli studies)

No worries

Quince1's photo
Mon 05/16/16 12:25 AM

That does not effect sperm production. When you are ready.
Sex every 24-36 hrs, for a new swim team with normal mobility.
* One day of absence increases changes. Max 4 days for peak fertility (Israeli studies)

No worries
I sure will put that into consideration