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Topic: Is it annoying when someone it too nice ?
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Fri 04/01/16 11:15 AM


Never trust a nice guy he's always hiding something.flowerforyou

Maybe the authorities should be notified and get this guy off the streets.

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Fri 04/01/16 11:33 AM
i have read the OP several times, Netty has expressed her doubts very well
i think here the problem is not the person's being so nice.
there are things not fitting in place right. sometimes it happens that there is not a mistake or sth wrong that you can directly point at but you have that feeling. your instincts tell you that. maybe your brain can not put a name on those faulties but your instincts show them to you. you feel creepy about them..
(with me, my instincts hardly fail..)

there have been times that i had the same doubts about people. but as i couldnt clearly name them, i preferred throwing them to the back of my brain and carry on with those people. at the end i always came to that point that the first day doubts were correct and i should pay attention to them..

there is still a possibility that my experiences have been like this just by chance and everyone is not the same. giving this guy a 2nd chance will not make you lose anything. you can have a more open eye to follow his manners as you already met him before and you know what to look at. there are 2 possibilities: 1. you will be sure that the guy is really strange and not for you 2. u will find out that you were wrong and he has some bad sides as well like all the other guys lol

what is the worst that can happen?

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Fri 04/01/16 12:08 PM

i have read the OP several times, Netty has expressed her doubts very well
i think here the problem is not the person's being so nice.
there are things not fitting in place right. sometimes it happens that there is not a mistake or sth wrong that you can directly point at but you have that feeling. your instincts tell you that. maybe your brain can not put a name on those faulties but your instincts show them to you. you feel creepy about them..
(with me, my instincts hardly fail..)

there have been times that i had the same doubts about people. but as i couldnt clearly name them, i preferred throwing them to the back of my brain and carry on with those people. at the end i always came to that point that the first day doubts were correct and i should pay attention to them..

there is still a possibility that my experiences have been like this just by chance and everyone is not the same. giving this guy a 2nd chance will not make you lose anything. you can have a more open eye to follow his manners as you already met him before and you know what to look at. there are 2 possibilities: 1. you will be sure that the guy is really strange and not for you 2. u will find out that you were wrong and he has some bad sides as well like all the other guys lol

what is the worst that can happen?
..ummm.. he can lock you in his sub-basement..lol

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Fri 04/01/16 12:26 PM


i have read the OP several times, Netty has expressed her doubts very well
i think here the problem is not the person's being so nice.
there are things not fitting in place right. sometimes it happens that there is not a mistake or sth wrong that you can directly point at but you have that feeling. your instincts tell you that. maybe your brain can not put a name on those faulties but your instincts show them to you. you feel creepy about them..
(with me, my instincts hardly fail..)

there have been times that i had the same doubts about people. but as i couldnt clearly name them, i preferred throwing them to the back of my brain and carry on with those people. at the end i always came to that point that the first day doubts were correct and i should pay attention to them..

there is still a possibility that my experiences have been like this just by chance and everyone is not the same. giving this guy a 2nd chance will not make you lose anything. you can have a more open eye to follow his manners as you already met him before and you know what to look at. there are 2 possibilities: 1. you will be sure that the guy is really strange and not for you 2. u will find out that you were wrong and he has some bad sides as well like all the other guys lol

what is the worst that can happen?
..ummm.. he can lock you in his sub-basement..lol


so what is wrong with it? lol

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Fri 04/01/16 12:38 PM



i have read the OP several times, Netty has expressed her doubts very well
i think here the problem is not the person's being so nice.
there are things not fitting in place right. sometimes it happens that there is not a mistake or sth wrong that you can directly point at but you have that feeling. your instincts tell you that. maybe your brain can not put a name on those faulties but your instincts show them to you. you feel creepy about them..
(with me, my instincts hardly fail..)

there have been times that i had the same doubts about people. but as i couldnt clearly name them, i preferred throwing them to the back of my brain and carry on with those people. at the end i always came to that point that the first day doubts were correct and i should pay attention to them..

there is still a possibility that my experiences have been like this just by chance and everyone is not the same. giving this guy a 2nd chance will not make you lose anything. you can have a more open eye to follow his manners as you already met him before and you know what to look at. there are 2 possibilities: 1. you will be sure that the guy is really strange and not for you 2. u will find out that you were wrong and he has some bad sides as well like all the other guys lol

what is the worst that can happen?
..ummm.. he can lock you in his sub-basement..lol


so what is wrong with it? lol
..ohhh.. nothing nothing at all.

Mmhhmmm.. love to be chained to the wall in someone's sub basement...
. Blindfolded feeling her hot breath on my neck... her fingernails running down my backside...mmmmm

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Fri 04/01/16 12:48 PM




i have read the OP several times, Netty has expressed her doubts very well
i think here the problem is not the person's being so nice.
there are things not fitting in place right. sometimes it happens that there is not a mistake or sth wrong that you can directly point at but you have that feeling. your instincts tell you that. maybe your brain can not put a name on those faulties but your instincts show them to you. you feel creepy about them..
(with me, my instincts hardly fail..)

there have been times that i had the same doubts about people. but as i couldnt clearly name them, i preferred throwing them to the back of my brain and carry on with those people. at the end i always came to that point that the first day doubts were correct and i should pay attention to them..

there is still a possibility that my experiences have been like this just by chance and everyone is not the same. giving this guy a 2nd chance will not make you lose anything. you can have a more open eye to follow his manners as you already met him before and you know what to look at. there are 2 possibilities: 1. you will be sure that the guy is really strange and not for you 2. u will find out that you were wrong and he has some bad sides as well like all the other guys lol

what is the worst that can happen?
..ummm.. he can lock you in his sub-basement..lol


so what is wrong with it? lol
..ohhh.. nothing nothing at all.

Mmhhmmm.. love to be chained to the wall in someone's sub basement...
. Blindfolded feeling her hot breath on my neck... her fingernails running down my backside...mmmmm


your imagination climbed up to Mars again
u should write novels, u would sell better than Harley Quinn

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Fri 04/01/16 01:01 PM

Is it annoying when someone it too nice ?


Some people are just..pleasers.
I am one, and as it happens, so is my mate.
We are always ready to subjugate our own
desires to make the other happy.

Pleasers do this.
Of course, the opposite is the taker.
Or the faker.

But some people are just..nice :-)


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Fri 04/01/16 02:49 PM


Hey....this friend of mine was on a date with this guy she met online. They were in the same car at the McDonald's drive-thru and he whipped out his pecker. So.....I think you got off easy. laugh
... it's all part of the McDonald's new build your own Burger experience ...lol.. jk.. when I hear stuff like this I feel really bad and a shame for mankind..


I love it when businesses begin new marketing campaigns that are out of there norm. laugh

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Fri 04/01/16 04:48 PM

Yes .. It makes me nauseous . Laughing .. I call it the Pollyanna complex ... And would run like Forrest :-)


a very interesting comment, like it :D

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Fri 04/01/16 05:38 PM

This is why.. I always mix just the right amount of niceness with just the right amount of hard to get with just the right amount of bad boy butt..I'm really not all that hard to get.... if you're too nice it comes off as creepy... like mr. Rogers creepy...lol..
Says the man wearing a sweater that mr. Roger himself would wear..lol


I think you nailed it with creepy. Just everything was so nice, so sweet..ugh!!
Give me something to work with here! An intelligent conversation and not just a staring court jester smiling across the dinner table at me!
I do think down deep I do need some of that hard to get bad boy in a man.
Men need challenges...so do women!

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