Topic: Love/dating/hurt/life goes on
awarf24's photo
Thu 07/14/16 04:02 PM
When you give someone everything and give them your heart for over 5 years, and they just trash it.. I'm not going to talk trash though because at the time I loved them. But they have obviously thought that my love and heart was just a game. What goes around comes around, it hurts but I'll be able to battle through this war. I am not worrying no more because it all happens for a reason and life goes on. Just everyone know karma is a *****.

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Thu 07/14/16 11:51 PM
give them your heart...they just trash it... What goes around comes around... it all happens for a reason

If what goes around comes around, and it all happens for a reason...doesn't that mean you deserved to have your heart trashed?

Other than that, you kinda have a choice on perspective.

Feeling powerless, you can feel like an extension to her life.
Like a reason for your existence was to enact some sort of karmic horror on her.

Or you can see yourself as the center of your life, and she was a tool that is teaching you something.


You ever read the complaints about women in comics?
Like writers kill off characters such as Gwen Stacy solely to cause Spiderman angst? To make his character appear more deep?

You get to choose whether you want to be Gwen Stacy, or Spiderman.

This:
"When you give someone everything and give them your heart for over 5 years, and they just trash it...What goes around comes around... karma is a *****" is choosing to be Gwen.

Be Spiderman.

mysticalview21's photo
Fri 07/15/16 10:12 AM

When you give someone everything and give them your heart for over 5 years, and they just trash it.. I'm not going to talk trash though because at the time I loved them. But they have obviously thought that my love and heart was just a game. What goes around comes around, it hurts but I'll be able to battle through this war. I am not worrying no more because it all happens for a reason and life goes on. Just everyone know karma is a *****.



I always thought there was Karma ... but maybe I just have not seen it back on someone all the time ... maybe we never see it... if saying is a *****... But believe if their is Karma... some really should get ****by it... for bringing hate ...to our world ...

Marco2492's photo
Fri 07/15/16 10:21 AM
we learned through life

no1phD's photo
Fri 07/15/16 11:32 AM

You are a young man .. who has learnt an important lesson... that sometimes loving someone and giving them your heart is not enough . .. Do not dwell on it any more .. Live in the now :-)
..you.now.. what would cheer him up right now...lol..yup..

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Sun 07/17/16 04:11 AM

When you give someone everything and give them your heart for over 5 years, and they just trash it.. I'm not going to talk trash though because at the time I loved them. But they have obviously thought that my love and heart was just a game. What goes around comes around, it hurts but I'll be able to battle through this war. I am not worrying no more because it all happens for a reason and life goes on. Just everyone know karma is a *****.


It seemed to me that you really have deeply loved the girl and you still have respect for her despite what happened. I believe you have a sincere heart when you love, you are a strong man with positive outlook in life. It's okay to mourn for the loss, let your heart cry out and release the pain......time will heal your wound. Find strength in that inner voice that whispers in your ear, yes indeed it happens for a reason........find that reason, life has a meaning .......step forward and never waver in your walk to find the new meaning in your life. Someday, somewhere ,somehow a new love awaits you. Have faith in your heart.:smile: happy

Don't wish for karma......just let things be. Be happy for her and for you. A new life begins, and a new love will flourish. Believe....:smile: happy

jacktrades's photo
Sun 07/17/16 04:51 AM
The best revenge is to just live better.

jacktrades's photo
Sun 07/17/16 04:51 AM
Edited by jacktrades on Sun 07/17/16 04:51 AM
oops

TMommy's photo
Sun 07/17/16 06:17 AM
awwww..so young baby
whole life in front of you

sorry she was such a ****

but give it a little time

there is a pretty sweet girl
waiting to meet you

john2016xoxo's photo
Wed 07/20/16 01:19 AM
Don't give up ... To be love is to be happy , happiness is part of life