I am bad guy.but I seriously love someone.she also loves me a lot.I hide some things from her and now I tell her all the truth.after listening all the truth she don't want to keep relation with me.I am totally confused I don't know what do to

Learn your lesson and move on. Become a better person. Remember when mess with another persons feelings what can happen. Sometimes when you are foolish and hide things you can lose what is you wanted in the first place. We all make mistakes in life just don't hide them. When you hide them they come bak to haunt you eventually.

Oh too bad I am sleepy now, as much as I'd like to give you a long advise, before I close my eyes I should just say........calm down, collect your thoughts, be patient, give her time, she's still processing all the lies and all the truth you have told her. And now try to sleep it off, rest your mind for tomorrow is another day and when you wake up ......look up to the sun.....may the brightness of a new day gives you enlightenment and hope that everything will be fine

What exactly are you confused about?

You knew you were lying before. You knew that you could never have a serious relationship with anyone who you lied to. Even if you lied to yourself, and pretended that you could go through life lying, and never get caught, while being satisfied with mates who never even knew who you really were. So nothing to be surprised or confused about that.

You knew that when your lies were found out, that she would be unhappy with you. That's the only reason people DO lie to begin with. So no surprise there either.

I hope you weren't hoping seriously that she would instead REWARD you for being honest NOW. Did you never get around to dealing with someone lying to YOU, and see how YOU reacted to the truth?

Dude, women are not turned on by liars & most are really turned off by that...It's also kindof like giving her false hope of something & will then question your credibility coz of lies

You should be proud of yourself for telling the truth... If it was true love, she'll come back to you in time.

If she loves you, she'll stay. Avoid secrets and lies in your relationship. Be open, be true, so that you won't have to remember or worry about anything.

Do you love yourself?
Would you respect someone who loves a bad guy?

Become someone worthy of being loved.
Don't expect her to get over your betrayal easily

Not all liars are really that bad, depends on the reason for doing it. I still believe that SOME PEOPLE lie because they are afraid to hurt or lose someone they love. But I'm not saying it's just OK to lie, no, it will never be. Always be honest with your partner even if truth hurts or mean losing the one you love, don't ever betray someone's trust in you. I have been lied to and betrayed before, I was hurt yet when I knew the reason why , I understood him and forgiven him. He showed me love more that I could ever asked for. He asked for forgiveness and was truly sorry for what he had done. What's important is he's willing to change and will try not to hurt me again. One mistake can't easily break the bond that you shared together. It would take some time for anger and pain to subside. Just hang on there. If she loves you, she'll forgive you

You make mistakes in life, we all do,

Learn from them and move on, life is too short!

WHAT DID YOU DO !?!?

I mean, are we talking you missed her birthday or something?
Or you are having twins with her mom..

it isn't clearly established yet the dilemma you are going through that brought you into confusion?

as you have not mention clearly even yet the extent level of offense you have committed that you came into a certain point that you have opted to lie on her?

but anyway,as far as I know...
there's no one ever get choked nor die in the history of this world by telling the truth...only get jailed!..jk

it all comes down into one thing..if you do both truly love each other.no matter how difficult the given situations were.you'll surely find the right way to get her back ..no matter what happens.
and always remember honestly is one of the vital keys to a harmonious relationship.

Or both?

All that any of us CAN do, with any situation we find ourselves in, is to begin again from the realities of that moment, to move forward in our lives as best we can.

If you find that, for whatever reason, you have lied your way into a mess, and you now want to build a truth-based life instead, you must begin by accepting the cost of your errors.

What that means first, when it comes to having lied your way into what you really want, is that you must not try to use apologies or excuses to try to avoid the consequences of your acts.

It IS a very good thing, to learn from having lied, by telling the truth now, and as well going forward from now. But that is not something to be admired, unless the person doing so accepts the reality that they must begin, in their relationships with the people they previously lied to, from a position of distrust and ignorance.

Those people who you lied to, not only don't know you at all for who you are, they also don't know how much of the "new you" they can trust. You MUST accept that, and realize that you have more to prove than even a complete stranger does to them.

If you fail to accept that, then you haven't accepted responsibility for yourself yet, and so are not yet to be trusted at all, even to new people who you meet.

That is the cost of trying to live by lies. You CAN grow out of it, and become the person who you wish to be seen as, but it is not an easy road to take. There may even be some general formula, which would be along the lines that although it only takes one big lie to completely destroy a reputation, it takes a million truths afterwards, to rebuild it.

Another great advise from Max!

Igor