Topic: No responses- please rate my profile
TheDarkMuse's photo
Thu 08/04/16 11:46 PM
Hi all! Other than the 20 scammers in a day that I eventually block, this website is okay. My concern is that when I reach out and say hello to local fellas, I am getting no responses at all. I am firm on the locals and smokers.
Let me know what you think.
Thanks, Theresa

Rooster35's photo
Fri 08/05/16 01:21 AM
Hi, TDM

Your profile isn't better or worse than any other I've seen on here. In my opinion, you might want to get rid of these sentences:

"NO SCAMMERS!!! DON'T EVEN TRY IT!! I Prefer locals only--NO MILITARY. Please, do not insult or become mean if I decline.
smoking is a deal breaker-first kiss should not be like licking a dirty wet ashtray--yeah, it's like that"

I think they are too negative and do you disservice although you might think they will save you time, in my opinion they're liable to put off a potential gentleman who might be interested, especially when your narrative starts with negative sentiments.
People are quick to judge and you want to show yourself in the best light possible without leading people in error about yourself.

Your pics are great.
Be patient.

no photo
Fri 08/05/16 01:31 AM

Hi, TDM

Your profile isn't better or worse than any other I've seen on here. In my opinion, you might want to get rid of these sentences:

"NO SCAMMERS!!! DON'T EVEN TRY IT!! I Prefer locals only--NO MILITARY. Please, do not insult or become mean if I decline.
smoking is a deal breaker-first kiss should not be like licking a dirty wet ashtray--yeah, it's like that"

I think they are too negative and do you disservice although you might think they will save you time, in my opinion they're liable to put off a potential gentleman who might be interested, especially when your narrative starts with negative sentiments.
People are quick to judge and you want to show yourself in the best light possible without leading people in error about yourself.

Your pics are great.
Be patient.



I agree with Rooster's comments.

Best of luck finding what you are looking for!


TheDarkMuse's photo
Mon 08/08/16 01:05 AM
Thanks!

TheDarkMuse's photo
Mon 08/08/16 01:05 AM
Thanks!

peggy122's photo
Mon 08/08/16 04:24 AM
Glad you took Rooster's advice Darkmuse. Your profile text and pics are great! Welcome to mingle and good luck in your search flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 08/08/16 03:10 PM
Hi, Theresa
There is a one thing which made me wonder .. you've been member since 2012, so more than 4 years and still no response .. what the heck is wrong with all of those guys out there .. coz there's nothing wrong with your profile. It's great.
The only obstacle might be the requirement to be local. Otherwise I'd send a hello note myself, because of your motorcycle riding hobby.
Perhaps would make a sense to join the forum so people could get to know you better ..

Keep looking and good luck in your search flowers

BreakingGood's photo
Mon 08/08/16 03:41 PM
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