Topic: Breakup
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Sat 09/10/16 06:35 PM
Is it a good idea to get with someone to get over a pass relationship ?

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Sat 09/10/16 07:12 PM
It can help.

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Sat 09/10/16 07:24 PM
I believe that is called a rebound relationship. Whether or not it is a good idea is completely up to you. Personally I try not to become involved with someone that has just broken up with someone because I don't want to be the rebound person. It usually does not last. Just be honest with the next person and let the choice be theirs. Who knows, they may actually be the one. smile2

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Sat 09/10/16 07:36 PM
I don't think getting on with a new relationship after a break up is helpful to make you get over the heartache of the previous one. It would be unfair to the new guy. Better heal yourself first before going to a new relationship.

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Sat 09/10/16 08:23 PM
I think you r right... It's so hard some time to get thought it by your self...

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Sat 09/10/16 08:24 PM
Thank you very much... I truly appreciate it...

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Sat 09/10/16 08:25 PM
Can u?!?

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Sun 09/11/16 05:09 PM


BAD IDEA IF YOU HAVE NOT LEARNED A LITTLE ABOUT YOURSELF AND WHY YOU WERE

ATTRACTED TO THE LAST ONEsad2 .......A RELATIONSHIP THAT WE DO NOT GROW

EMOTIONALLY I BELIEVE IS A WASTE OF TIME AND ENERGY.. smile2 P.S. LIKE WHAT

NEED WERE YOU TRYING TO SATISFY IN THE LAST RELATIONSHIP ?

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Mon 09/12/16 11:38 AM
Edited by TinaNo8 on Mon 09/12/16 11:39 AM
Yes it is a good idea. Everyone do that. It's easier. When I was it that kind of situation my friend suggested me dating sites like lasvegas.partyline, tinder, match something like that. It's healthy to get over someone.

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Mon 09/12/16 11:44 AM
Personally I don't think so.
I think you need to get deal with things before moving on or you are just going to take the crap into another relationship.

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Mon 09/12/16 12:51 PM

Is it a good idea to get with someone to get over a pass relationship ?


I have seen it happen so many times, and usually someone ends up getting hurt. I guess it works for some.

Me nope...Need that time to heal and clean the heartache and learn from the experience.



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Mon 09/12/16 01:23 PM
I guess I am still here, hmmmm, so. Put this way if, you are the person who needs to get with someone to get over someone, then you aren't honestly dealing with the emotional upheaval the previous relationship caused. You are hiding from it and masking the emotional repercussions. You need to spend time with yourself to adequately handle receiving and giving love again. As for having a sexual relationship during the process is not an unusual thing for physical needs for some.