Topic: If love is out there, then why does it escape me.
DraconianLord696's photo
Mon 09/26/16 04:26 PM
If love really exists then, why is it so hard to discover. I have been searching for an eternity to that question. frustrated

sparkyae5's photo
Mon 09/26/16 04:38 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Mon 09/26/16 04:39 PM
GO TO A SENIOR CENTER....THERE IS ALWAYS 10 WOMEN TO EVERY GUY.THEY WILL FIND YOU....

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 09/26/16 06:01 PM

If love really exists then, why is it so hard to discover. I have been searching for an eternity to that question. frustrated


You must have discovered it before, because you say in your Mingle2 profile that you are divorced.

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Mon 09/26/16 10:35 PM
If love is out there, then why does it escape me.

It doesn't like being stalked and trapped, requiring escape?

If love really exists then, why is it so hard to discover.

Because it's not like a light bulb either on or off, there or not?
It's more like a process of emotional entanglement and association building?

I have been searching for an eternity to that question.

An eternity?
If you can prove you were alive for an eternity, can you petition for social security back pay?

That would be kind of awesome. "Hey, government, I turned 65 and retired about an eternity ago. Soooo...let's just call it an even $100 trillion tax free and we're square."


mzrosie's photo
Mon 09/26/16 10:56 PM
If love is out there, then why does it escape me.



Perhaps you left the door open.
Perhaps it wasn't meant to be.
Perhaps you should get a better trap.
Perhaps...

Rooster35's photo
Mon 09/26/16 11:10 PM

If love really exists then, why is it so hard to discover. I have been searching for an eternity to that question. frustrated


Love depends on people to share it and show it. Unfortunately nowadays people are more after money and material possessions than after the means to love someone. Everything else comes before Love now.
For the opposing sex love can only be granted once a set of conditions have been fullfilled: height, weight, social status and commitment to a government's Marriage Contract.
Look at our world and tell me if Love reigns in the hearts of people. Corruption, lies, jealousy, deciet, material possessions and murder seem to me have supplanted the Love in people's heart.
Men often confuse Love with Sex while that latter is primarily used to subjugate them into a system of usury.
Men look to women for love while 95% of the time they will find their submission andย mental castration.
If you're looking for Love go to church.
If you're looking for happiness I recommend contentment.

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Mon 09/26/16 11:11 PM
Edited by SimpyComplicated on Mon 09/26/16 11:13 PM

If love really exists then, why is it so hard to discover. I have been searching for an eternity to that question. frustrated


Perhaps you are defining love wrong

What you define it to be shall guide you to the goal

If you find the goal doesn't exist, time to change the definition

The fact you doubt its existence indicates a poor definition

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Mon 09/26/16 11:24 PM
Love is blind and therefore cannot see you.

It usually finds you by accident in unexpected places, or so I'm told.

Madcatlady01's photo
Tue 09/27/16 02:06 AM
The worry is if you look too hard and are desperate to find it you will end up grabbing the first thing that seems to look, smell or feel like it. You end up settling for something that just substitutes for the real thing and never satisfies your heart.

Get out and meet people. She might not be in an obvious place. She could be the lady at the library who loans out the books and always has a cheery word or the quiet lady at the post office counter who watches you with interest over her glasses. She could be anywhere. Just interact with everyone and be open to opportunities.

Dutchdinero29's photo
Wed 09/28/16 06:30 AM

If love really exists then, why is it so hard to discover. I have been searching for an eternity to that question. frustrated

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Wed 09/28/16 06:54 AM
Love is kind of slippery, when you find it hold on tight!

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Wed 09/28/16 01:16 PM


If love is out there, then why does it escape me.



Death is also out there & it has escaped you too so far ohwell

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Wed 09/28/16 02:08 PM

If love really exists then, why is it so hard to discover. I have been searching for an eternity to that question. frustrated

Cos you probably are looking to find it in someone else and you should be looking to find it in yourself.
Love yourself first, one of the hardest thing to do for everyone, but a requirement in order to find (real healthy) love.

It's like Abraham Hicks says; you're looking for reasons to love. It doesn't matter what you love, as long as you find things to love. A book, a bird, a car, whatever.
The more you love, the better you will feel and the easier it will become for a good match to miraculously turn up.

azzure82's photo
Wed 09/28/16 02:45 PM
yes ,there is love

no1phD's photo
Wed 09/28/16 03:27 PM
Why does it Xscape you..
Umm.. you might want to try washing the Vaseline off of your hands....
Hard to catch anything with slippery fingers..lol..jk.... try going right instead of left next time..lol

Goofball73's photo
Wed 09/28/16 03:44 PM

If love really exists then, why is it so hard to discover. I have been searching for an eternity to that question. frustrated


I hear in Vegas that you can pay for it. laugh

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Tue 10/04/16 01:16 AM
Hi hello out there can I have some tips on how to get my girl back