Topic: Advice
villa427's photo
Sun 10/09/16 05:54 PM
This is for the females mostly but men your advice is greatly appreciated. If a man was to approach you what would draw your attention about him that you would find attractive ?

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Sun 10/09/16 07:13 PM
If a man was to approach you what would draw your attention about him that you would find attractive?

- their face and body's adherence or reflection of the golden ratio, phi.

Everything after that is ignorant rationalizing due to the need for subjective control in order to feel safe, secure, and important. Not just another animal.

Mtnpenny's photo
Sun 10/09/16 07:21 PM
His demeanor. Is he confident? Or timid? Is he clean? Or grungy?
For me it is more about attitude than if he is "hot" with 6pack abs.

sparkyae5's photo
Mon 10/10/16 08:39 AM

If a man was to approach you what would draw your attention about him that you would find attractive?

- their face and body's adherence or reflection of the golden ratio, phi.

Everything after that is ignorant rationalizing due to the need for subjective control in order to feel safe, secure, and important. Not just another animal.



THIS IS A GUY....laugh laugh laugh

soufiehere's photo
Mon 10/10/16 08:58 AM

This is for the females mostly but men your advice is greatly appreciated. If a man was to approach you what would draw your attention about him that you would find attractive ?

Smiling can bridge.
Quietness is appealing..feels like confidence.
Holding back (as opposed to gushing) is attractive.

I am not going to see his face/looks (this is a
brain dysfunction of mine, I do not relate to appearances)
so it will all be about the vibe he throws off.

Humor is d bomb :-)

no photo
Mon 10/10/16 10:18 AM


This is for the females mostly but men your advice is greatly appreciated. If a man was to approach you what would draw your attention about him that you would find attractive ?

Smiling can bridge.
Quietness is appealing..feels like confidence.
Holding back (as opposed to gushing) is attractive.

I am not going to see his face/looks (this is a
brain dysfunction of mine, I do not relate to appearances)
so it will all be about the vibe he throws off.

Humor is d bomb :-)

You're welcome

Annierooroo's photo
Mon 10/10/16 11:24 AM


This is for the females mostly but men your advice is greatly appreciated. If a man was to approach you what would draw your attention about him that you would find attractive ?

Smiling can bridge.
Quietness is appealing..feels like confidence.
Holding back (as opposed to gushing) is attractive.

I am not going to see his face/looks (this is a
brain dysfunction of mine, I do not relate to appearances)
so it will all be about the vibe he throws off.

Humor is d bomb :-)


I am the same as you.
Looks fade it's the heart the speak volumes
What flows out of the mouth is what's in the heart.

villa427's photo
Mon 10/10/16 06:24 PM
The vibes yes, to me it's the energy I feel from that person, truly I know I have too feel that energy, a text message don't work with me Actions do