point taken,,,

I wasn't talking about voyeurism but participation...and then you could wait until the sarge got exhausted to 'stand up'

My misunderstanding. It seemed as if it were from a voyeuristic point of view.
Even getting to participate, I'd have to decline. Just not something I could do, as it just wouldn't be comfortable. Perhaps I'm still old fashioned in that sense.

Who says 'old fashioned' is always a bad thing?

I don't know.. a 3some or 4some.. seems pretty shallow. It would seem to me to maybe attract people who like to use people or be used by people.

Not my cup of tea.

People are like snowflakes....everyone is different. To some porn enhances things. To others it diminishes it. What works for one, doesn't work for all

Not interested in porn as it clearly caters for men. I don't like to watch a half hour BJ, nor staring at his shwetty bolls in close up for half an hour as he's doing some bimbo.
I'm a woman, I get turned on by the stuff before, during and after the deed, -the story part so to speak-, not by having to watch closeups of someone's knob or another woman's private parts.
And that story part can be hot as hell, I love that.

Worst part of porn is where he dumps his -as Max called it- 'love beads'.
The visual of that on a woman's body does nothing for me whatsoever. Can be downright off-putting even, depending on where he dumps it.

If ever I did get aroused by the movie, that shuts everything down. I know men need/like/love those visuals, I'm for the emotions and primal instincts. I need it to go where it's supposed to go, and that ain't ON a woman.
Every adult movie I ever watched I was hoping, praying, he'd not withdraw, but he always did. Almost made me want to cry, big big anti-climax! Like killing of the hero in a great action movie right before the saves the world.

As for participating in more-somes... Doubt it.
The fantasy is exciting, yes.
The reality of it could be soul destroying though, and relationship wrecking. Or wracking. Can never work out which one is right, lol. In any case, it could be bad.
The relationship would have to be rock solid, and both partners would need to be very totally absolutely confident in their masculinity & femininity.

I understand the porn thing, but now that I am older I look at it like most of the time the fantasy is better than the actual act.

i would like to help you find out if that theory is real lol.....

not that I will admit to carousing the porn sites to see what was out there..
after being married for twenty years to a conservative man
I had never even peeked at it

oh when I was younger, before I was married used to peek at my brother's Playboys for fun of it


well let us just say it was quite the eye opening experience
when I took a lookie at all the categories

strictly for educational purposes of course..

I did kinda giggle at the ones where people dressed in costumes

like this one that had red riding hood and the big bad wolf..

i love adult movies I'm biexual s
o I can be in a room with a bunch of guys watching porn plus I love being watched

Clearly porn has it attractions otherwise nobody would pay attention.

I suppose for some watching a movie would be more exciting than the real thing; probably because the watcher is sheltered from being a part of the action also the imagination might make it more exciting form him/her.

For me I can't believe a flick would be more interesting than a real woman but that's me.