.......... inhibitions or fears could limit your experiences in life, I have been there before, I let good opportunities slip away ..life is boring and lonely.....take life as it is , embrace all the good and bad, learn from it and appreciate them all even the ones who have hurt you

that's the virtual cycle...lok

We are ALWAYS single, attached to nothing.

We exist in a state of being where we are never actually part of anything but ourselves. Our associations that we build in our lives give us the feeling of being part of something or someone else but in reality we are truly alone.

We are born alone (yes even if we are twins)
We learn and experience the world alone
and, We die alone.

Our associations are delusions that we create so we feel part of something. That is because people can't deal with the reality of the individual nature of an organism.

This is a dating site. Single is termed to mean relationship with another person, not an association with anything.

Alone is termed to mean existing without another person sharing your life experiences.

Lonely is a state of mind based on the delusions that reinforce depression. It is the longing for someone else to share life with. The inability for oneself to accept their state of alone.