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Topic: How do you want to fall in love?
eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Mon 05/07/18 04:21 AM
If you were given an option on how you would want to fall in love, how would it be? Slow , smart and sure or mindless, head over heels ,crazy kind of love? i have had it happen both ways. the later is definitely more invigorating but the most lasting ones actually fell somewhere in the middle. but to be honest i am not beholden to one way or the other

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 05/07/18 05:00 AM
If you were given an option on how you would want to fall in love, how would it be? Slow , smart and sure or mindless, head over heels ,crazy kind of love? Just Naturally ! How natural should it be Just Naturally,meet and just connect,unplanned,nothing forced!

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Mon 05/07/18 11:45 PM
If you were given an option on how you would want to fall in love, how would it be? Slow , smart and sure or mindless, head over heels ,crazy kind of love? i have had it happen both ways. the later is definitely more invigorating but the most lasting ones actually fell somewhere in the middle. but to be honest i am not beholden to one way or the other Not beholden... meaning youd prefer both?

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Mon 05/07/18 11:46 PM
I'd like it to happen like last time, with the difference that it goes somewhere for real of course. But an immediate intense connection, a feeling of belonging. And I'd like for things to move reasonably fast. I have little patience in love & romance... Venus in Aries, I can't help it, believe me I tried. Slow and easy doesn't really work for me. Been there in the past. It only p\|$$es me off and then I lose interest altogether.

Unknow Joined Sat 01/11/14 Posts: 23369	Tue 05/08/18 12:22 AM
Not beholden mbaf Not worried how it happens

Piscesmoon02 Joined Wed 11/02/16 Posts: 56490	Tue 05/08/18 04:12 AM
If you were given an option on how you would want to fall in love, how would it be? Slow , smart and sure or mindless, head over heels ,crazy kind of love? I would choose not to fall in love to begin with... saves a lot of heart ache!

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Tue 05/08/18 04:48 AM
either way works what i would be beholden to is that it's mutual not one sided

Piscesmoon02 Joined Wed 11/02/16 Posts: 56490	Tue 05/08/18 04:52 AM
either way works what i would be beholden to is that it's mutual not one sided

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Tue 05/08/18 04:53 AM
never give up p the rewards always outweigh the risk

Piscesmoon02 Joined Wed 11/02/16 Posts: 56490	Tue 05/08/18 04:59 AM
never give up p the rewards always outweigh the risk I'll keep that in mind... After recovering from having my ego crushed a couple times in the last week Thanks!

Larsi666 😽 Joined Wed 01/31/18 Posts: 17118	Tue 05/08/18 05:10 AM
If you were given an option on how you would want to fall in love, how would it be? Slow , smart and sure or mindless, head over heels ,crazy kind of love? I would choose not to fall in love to begin with... saves a lot of heart ache! I know that feeling, my head says 'No', trying to be realistic. But that grumpy old heart of mine thinks kinda different. That's life, I suppose

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 05/08/18 05:34 AM
If you were given an option on how you would want to fall in love, how would it be? Slow , smart and sure or mindless, head over heels ,crazy kind of love? I totally agree,I guess it's not by choice though,but I'd rather not also,I think ima be happier without it too! I would choose not to fall in love to begin with... saves a lot of heart ache!

Piscesmoon02 Joined Wed 11/02/16 Posts: 56490	Tue 05/08/18 05:39 AM
If you were given an option on how you would want to fall in love, how would it be? Slow , smart and sure or mindless, head over heels ,crazy kind of love? I would choose not to fall in love to begin with... saves a lot of heart ache! I totally agree,I guess it's not by choice though,but I'd rather not also,I think ima be happier without it too! Too!? I'm not happier without it, lol. Just am avoiding it at for the time being. As soon as my poor little ego gets a little boost, I'll be right back to being a hopeless romantic that never gives up.

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Tue 05/08/18 06:50 AM
If you were given an option on how you would want to fall in love, how would it be? Slow , smart and sure or mindless, head over heels ,crazy kind of love? I would choose not to fall in love to begin with... saves a lot of heart ache! I totally agree,I guess it's not by choice though,but I'd rather not also,I think ima be happier without it too! Too!? I'm not happier without it, lol. Just am avoiding it at for the time being. As soon as my poor little ego gets a little boost, I'll be right back to being a hopeless romantic that never gives up. Hugs to you sis

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 05/08/18 10:16 AM
If you were given an option on how you would want to fall in love, how would it be? Slow , smart and sure or mindless, head over heels ,crazy kind of love? I would choose not to fall in love to begin with... saves a lot of heart ache! I totally agree,I guess it's not by choice though,but I'd rather not also,I think ima be happier without it too! Too!? I'm not happier without it, lol. Just am avoiding it at for the time being. As soon as my poor little ego gets a little boost, I'll be right back to being a hopeless romantic that never gives up. Good luck!