From the last couple of months, I am feeling that he is lying to me about almost everything, I also got to know that he cheated on me. Our relationship is not on good track. What should I do? Should I stop and move on?

Communication is key.
Lack of communication can destroy a relationship.
I suggest you try talking with him honestly about your concerns.
Impress upon him that his honesty is vital.
You may not like what you hear but you also may gain enlightenment on how to repair your relationship.

Sometimes people say and do things they have no idea hurts the ones that love them.
All people change as time progresses.
Maybe he has the same concerns as you about your relationship but doesn't know how to express them so he gives up.

Seriously, have a heart to heart with him.

Where there is smoke there is fire. Life is too short....dump him

You complain that "he is lying to me about almost everything" and you are on here looking for a woman for dating. Can't say I blame him.

I think you should be talking things out with him, ask him what you should do about your relationship.

who?

Your profile says you are looking for a woman..
that to get even?

Tom is right...I find him to be a wise man..before you do anything rash..talk it out and know for sure before you do anything else..for it is better to know the truth than to live a life of regret..of what might have been ..what could've been...and if for nothing else if it doesn't work out than at least you will know for sure..you take care and I hope it all works out well for you...

hello

The fact is no one can answer that question for you.... in your heart you know the truth already and maybe just don't want to face it...
No matter what anybody says to you on here you are going to do what you want in the end...

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I hope she got what she needed.

So talking to him is kinda outta the question.
How could you believe anything he says?

Unless he follows up with behavioral changes that support what he says.

And even if he does change his behavior, how do you know he's not just changing it for your sake, and it won't lead to resentment towards you for pushing him to change.


I'm not sure what you are trying to convey here.
You were told or found out that he actually cheated on you?
You were told or found that that he actually cheated on you in the past, you got over it, and now there are indications he's doing it again?
Or you have a burning desire to "know" whether or not he cheated on you, but you don't really know, just suspect?

If you feel that he is lying to you about almost everything, is there any answer he can give other than "yep! Sure did!" that you'd believe?


I don't know.
I don't know what you've been doing.
I have no idea how long the relationship has been going on.
I have no idea any changes in his, or your, behavior.
I have no idea what else is going on, or even what's really going on in your relationship.
For all I know you took a bad batch of e last night and had a two week conversation in your head, filling in his parts with your own bias, over the last 12 hours and have come to this decision.


Maybe.
That's the easy way. Is that the type of person you are?
Do you take the easiest and quickest way and can maintain your own mental/emotional health that way? Nothing wrong with that. Some people can simply process things quickly, make a decision, and move on living up to it.
Or are you the type of person that tends to dwell on things and hold grudges? Are you primarily motivated to stop and move on because what you "really" want to do is just avoid responsibility, throw a tantrum, throw the "ball in his court," maybe punish him a little, i.e. communicate your pain to him by trying to hurt him.

Other than that, what exactly are you "stopping."
I mean if the "relationship" has lasted a year, and the past six months you've been noticing more and more "lying" behavior, and more evidence of him "cheating," then what are you trying to save?
Huge difference between trying to save a 40 year relationship with the last 6 months being rough, and trying to save a 12 month relationship where the last 8 have been nothing but drama.

I smell troll.



On a serious note,
insecurities destroy more relationships,
than actual wrong doings.