Is it time to stop trying looking for love again

Are you stopping because you found it westhamfan?

No it’s because I don’t have any luck finding love again

Never stop trying ....there is someone for everyone...the right girl will come along best of luck too you!

Oh, then it's probably good to stop looking. I've heard it never works when you're actively seeking to find it. Once you relax, but remain open, and are no longer trying so hard to find it, it just shows up.

I relate to what you're saying though. It's disheartening at times, but when the time is right, if it's meant to be, it will happen.

Just remember love/ intimacy is the only free gift we can give in this life, so when it comes be ready to make the decision. Speaking of luck, our entire life is probably 99% luck. We don't get a choice where we are born or who our parents are but that 1% is all you need to make a lucky choice for the right person. Don't worry you know chance/probability, you will meet that lucky lady. Then u can rise like a Phoenix.

All love is true or it isn't love.

Love isn't something that you select from a menu, you can't buy it, you can't force it and when it happens, you can't really control it.

Love is entirely found within yourself.
You don't live behind anyone else's eyes but yours.
People can demonstrate their love for you but you can never know for sure how their love manifests within them. You only know, for sure, the love that manifests within you.

People confuse love with toleration, lust and infatuation. Love is what remains after all the expectations are stripped away. We often love someone despite the circumstances.

There is no such thing as "Love you a little"
You may appreciate, prefer or experience specific things about a person that you call love but love is complete, full and unwavering.
Anyone that has raised their child know exactly what I'm talking about.

only if you have already found it!!!

otherwise,you cant win it,if you aint in it!!

Hello no1westhamfan

Do you have a Plan B?

I bet it's because he found out love is like a Fan.j/s

Not sure what that means?

Maybe he found out or figures it just doesn't exist anymore.

Hii

Like a Fan = one side s@@k's and the other blows.

not if she already went by...

Oh okay, yes I agree.... love can really suck and it totally blows when things don't work out.

Your present hopelessness about your romantic future is likely to attract more negative results

Perhaps you can take a break from the search, and seek out people who have been successful with love to feel that inspiration before resuming your search?

Good luck

can I ask what you are currently doing to find love

You do not find love. It finds you.

Sammy had this to say. Lol