I am looking for honest answers. Am I to old an ugly to expect to possibly meet someone here?
I don't want flattery to try and make me feel better just be honest.

There's somebody for everybody. You're as good as anyone else. Can't all be about age and looks, if it is, I'm a goner!

thank you it is just when ur told that a few times u feel u need another opinion to c if ur wasting ur time.

Many people do not just look at age and looks, when seeking a comparable partner.

So it's possible to meet someone, Maybe not Limit to this site.

yes this is true and i am on another site too. ty

I hope in my next life I come back beautiful and sexy instead of this sparkling personality ****.....just a joke I read somewhere lol. Perhaps do a little volunteer work The Woman's Auxiliary at the Legion or adult activity center etc. I recently signed up as a volunteer at my local Retirement Home, if nothing else I'm not bored lol. Good luck, I hope you find what you are looking for

To the TO, I find it that most females have the post wall syndrome ( google it), they have unrealistic demands and expectations from man leading to....what you are facing, it has noting to do with being too old or too ugly, it has to do with female standards, lower your expectations and you will do just fine.

This is haaaardly limited to females, 1/2 us jokers think we should be with super models!!
But ya, no. You are neither too old, nor too ugly! Maybe this isnt the best site for you though

You misunderstand what i said. It is not my expectations that is the problem as I have none on any dating site i am on.

I have been told that several times by young men. I am too old and too ugly to be on a dating site. I merely asked to see if most people agree with them.

You mean some Jerk told you that on here?

Don't you dare lower your standards because some geezer's bitter about having most of his emails ignored.

Just be content in the knowledge that the young girls at the chemist laugh at him behind his back everytime he gets his viagra prescription

I do not think you are too old or ugly at all. As jill said some people just lash out when they are frustrated. Have fun and enjoy yourself.

You will always find young idiots who lash out at anyone for whatever reason. Maybe their mommy did not change their diapers, or they didn't get their own way when playing with their toys. Who knows what is in their twisted minds. Maybe they feel so invincible sitting behind their computer screen that they think they can say what they want. If someone on this site says anything like that to you in a message, just report them. You cannot let someone like that dictate whether you have fun on a site like this. Spend time in these forums and put their comments in Mingle's garbage can for that is what their comments are - garbage. But to answer your specific question, no you are not too old or ugly. Enjoy yourself..

I would not say that anyone is too old as there are many women older than me that I have liked. Looks is a complicated one as every person has an individual perception on who they are attracted to. As long as a person shows they try to look after themselves as much as they can then at least it will increase interest.
Personality is also important and there is nothing wrong with having certain standards as long as they are realistic. You may have an advantage over another woman who is considered very pretty if they have unrealistic wishes from a partner like being a certain height or drives a motorbike. I consider myself as plain but how I get around that is observing couples who are plain also but have shown genuine interest in wanting each other. If you perhaps feel plain also just don't worry as someone may really like you when going out on a date. The main thing is not to limit yourself to online dating sites.