Community > 50 and over

Topic: Cute 55+ feels ignored by men. What's a girl gotta do to fin
... Joined Sat 09/26/15 Posts: 1932	Sat 01/12/19 04:20 AM
Just turned 69 but not yet too old to share nice stuff with interesting people!

Palghat Joined Thu 05/10/18 Posts: 187	Sat 01/12/19 07:51 AM
Thanks guys! That's what I've been told. The problem is where do I go. I'm not the type to pick-up men. I used to work in a building with 3,000 people. I was out there everyday. No luck... Hi Spotted_One, Break the rules. Dress up your CV, scout for a job outside of your health industry, even if you have wrong qualifications, have money and don't need one. Small businesses for part time work. This routine works in select places. In my experience, one meets right people in unexpected places, I was never ready!!

Raider Joined Fri 12/28/18 Posts: 1	Thu 01/17/19 11:52 AM
Go places to do things that you enjoy, be talkative and nice to everyone and chances are someone there with similar interests might just take notice. Yes bars with live music that you enjoy should be an option as well. Good luck!

... Joined Sat 09/26/15 Posts: 1932	Fri 01/18/19 04:35 AM
Sometimes live music can make conversation impossible. I well remember as a teenager having to shout, "What's your name?" and not hearing her answer!

FeelYoung Joined Sat 08/25/18 Posts: 860	Mon 01/21/19 10:23 PM
SmartJohn - i agree with you that we do not know where or what we will be in 13 year from now. my oldest daughter died at the age of 33 and here I have lived 75 years. All I know is that my heart and mind are not going to change if I live 1 more hour or 25 more years. I made up my mind when I was 16 I was not going to end up a boring old lady working crossword puzzles and playing Bingo when I am ancient. That is just not ME. it's fine for many others. I had one aunt live to be 100 and dropped dead in her stable while feeding her horse. And another aunt at 104 who went to flea markets and movies with a 70 year old man who adored her. SO....... to each his own.

... Joined Sat 09/26/15 Posts: 1932	Tue 01/22/19 12:08 AM


GPMAN55 Joined Thu 11/29/18 Posts: 1	Wed 01/30/19 05:24 PM
My red flag on your profile for me would be the religious part. That's for me.

... Joined Sat 09/26/15 Posts: 1932	Thu 01/31/19 12:48 AM
We're all different!

hotflagal Joined Tue 01/22/19 Posts: 42	Thu 01/31/19 08:32 AM
@nature lady I feel your "pain" I am 10 years younger but I think that we think alike. keep yourself in good shape, dress well, and maintain an open mind. just put yourself out there and see what crops up.

... Joined Sat 09/26/15 Posts: 1932	Thu 01/31/19 09:07 AM
Good luck to both of you, wish there were such nice people here from England, preferably living close to me!

Mike6615 Joined Sun 09/18/16 Posts: 1508	Thu 01/31/19 10:07 AM
Good luck to both of you, wish there were such nice people here from England, preferably living close to me! Good luck to you too, and let us know of any signs of the return of Gorgo's mom!

... Joined Sat 09/26/15 Posts: 1932	Fri 02/01/19 01:10 PM
Where does someone like me meet a nice man for dating and possibly more? In places that share the same interests as you have - a church for example?

johntot Joined Sat 11/29/14 Posts: 1	Tue 02/19/19 03:44 PM
I always was noticed by men in the past. Now, despite being nice looking and a very good person I find myself being ignored most of the time. I don't drink or smoke and don't hang-out in bars. Where does someone like me meet a nice man for dating and possibly more?

Greenerpastures Joined Mon 02/11/19 Posts: 72	Thu 02/21/19 05:44 PM
Sometimes live music can make conversation impossible. I well remember as a teenager having to shout, "What's your name?" and not hearing her answer!

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14476	Thu 02/21/19 06:29 PM
Some older men cannot get a date! Oftentimes woman are much more successful getting one.

Chris692 Joined Fri 03/21/14 Posts: 31	Fri 02/22/19 11:24 AM
Find somewhere to volunteer, doing something you like. Good chance you'll find someone there

... Joined Sat 09/26/15 Posts: 1932	Sun 02/24/19 12:03 AM
Some older men cannot get a date! Oftentimes woman are much more successful getting one. I have always thought that women are more successful and now I know it for sure!

Willothewisp Joined Sat 05/21/16 Posts: 15	Wed 03/13/19 07:27 AM
Let's see the body work and will let you know xx

Roy Joined Sat 05/11/19 Posts: 1	Sun 05/12/19 02:35 AM
You are definitely beautiful, I am sure you will get your own right man very soon!

Liz Joined Fri 02/22/19 Posts: 124	Sun 05/12/19 07:27 AM
try the frozen foods aisle at the market. hit him over the head with a frozen lasagna and put him in your cart Hahaha hahaha, rofl.