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Topic: Someone said it would get busier over the holidays..
I_love_bluegrass's photo
Mon 12/24/18 08:05 AM
With regards to people messaging you.
I Haven't found that to be true..
Heck, even the scammers seem to have slowed up..guess they are busy with the holidays themselves...LOLrofl rofl

NotPay4Play's photo
Mon 12/24/18 08:37 AM
I have noticed it's useually just before Valentine's that they are the most active. My date sites profiles get a lot less attention dureing the actual holidays.

NotPay4Play's photo
Mon 12/24/18 09:06 AM

maybe they meant the forums get more active....since folks are off work in general...


Could be you're right. But this time of year people are even more busy on their days off. slaphead

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Mon 12/24/18 11:10 AM
People pop on and off when they have some time.. Everyone has a life and is busy with it.

JustBeHonest's photo
Mon 12/24/18 11:23 AM


I’ve noticed a lot more friend requests since I am no longer looking

laugh

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 12/24/18 11:28 AM
I noticed a lot of friends requests I have to Delete. :smile:

Maybe the Scammers think we are gone for the Holiday.

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Mon 12/24/18 12:05 PM
I noticed when I look my pic down the amount of scammers dropped a lot. So I leave it off

Maybe they think I too am fake and thy pass me by ?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 12/24/18 01:15 PM



I’ve noticed a lot more friend requests since I am no longer looking

laugh

You're seeing someone, right? Then that tends to happen. Matter of vibration. You are on a more positive, loving and open vibe when you are with someone which attracts people. And yes, that works online just the same.
That's why you get this weird phenomenon as well that as soon as you find new love, you're ex contacts you. It's not really weird. All of a sudden you feel great, and everyone is attracted to light.
flowerforyou

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 12/24/18 01:19 PM
I haven't noticed it's busier either. Yes, more people have a holiday, but they're also busy with stuff, prepping to celebrate Christmas and going over to family, getting shopping in and so on. Some people actually go somewhere -like a hotel- for a few days.
The ones who don't have any of that are maybe binge drinking and watching movies?

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Mon 12/24/18 01:31 PM
With regards to what someone said last week about how there would be more "activity" due to people not wanting to be alone over the holidays..ohwell


SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 12/24/18 02:38 PM

With regards to what someone said last week about how there would be more "activity" due to people not wanting to be alone over the holidays..ohwell



It is the default story that's always told. I've never really heeded it much myself as I'm not bothered by being single during the holidays. They are special days to me, but I can enjoy that on my own and/or being single.
It is typical that most say they don't notice an increase either.
For me not an increase on here, nor on the Dutch sites I'm on (not fora, proper dating sites).

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Mon 12/24/18 02:54 PM
Today, in the last few hours, I've gotten more messages sent to me from married men than ever before. What's up with that?

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 12/24/18 02:56 PM

Everyone has a life


huh They do? noway

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 12/24/18 02:57 PM

Today, in the last few hours, I've gotten more messages sent to me from married men than ever before. What's up with that?


Dynamite comes in a small package, and they are seeking dynamite.

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Mon 12/24/18 03:13 PM
When a married man messages me, I always think, why don't you go talk to your wife?

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 12/24/18 03:28 PM
Cat they need to be single. They are not married but in a mess.

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Mon 12/24/18 03:29 PM


Everyone has a life


huh They do? noway


Well.... they should. A internet web site can't be it. Any internet web site. Some people choose not to have a life outside of their computer. And because of that they forget how to interact with people... outside.

And that is not... life

Rock's photo
Tue 12/25/18 02:19 AM
Usually, BEFORE the holidays, there's an
increase in email traffic

During the holidays?
It's generally quieter than quiet.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 12/25/18 02:39 AM
Come to think of it, I DO have an increase in answers of my quiz on a dating site. I didn't get much response to them of late, yet now it's like 11 responses, 12, 18 and so on.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 12/25/18 03:10 AM
50 Views still results in 1 or 2 women within my age preference.
Of those, none are local.
I'm really no longer 'looking'.
I noticed more friend requests but I decline those unless they are people I know from interacting with them.
Frankly, there is nothing worth my time in the last 2 months.

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