Stop being such Push-Overs in front of the Women you like.

Seriously Man the **** Up.



cuz im really tired of all the ones who keep whining about how the nice guy always gets screwed. How the jerk always gets the girl. stop whining and step up to the "NOW".

Yea, ive been used, Yea it hurts, But guess what, I havent let it happen since.

Have some self-respect and dignity. <<< You can have that and still be a Gentlemen but jeez stop laying yourself out for girls, especially when you're just getting to know them.

Here's a scenerio:
A girl you like and is sitting beside you and their are napkins closer to her than you, within a hands reach of her. She asks for a napkin, what do you do...?

I'll tell you what I do. I tell her straight up and my words exactly. "I aint your *****." <<< That right there sets the tone. now dont say it all grouchy and ****, but show her you got Balls and your not going to give them to her whenever she calls. This way too, you present that challenge! and girls love that challenge, because most guys are that push-over I'll do whatever you want type.


Men if you feel you are being used and passed over, well do something about it, seriously.

wow you know this type of thread is every bit as annoying as the whining ones.

oh ok.


i haven't been cussing and calling my dates names.....
but now I know better!

well no matter how badly you end this fairy tale
it will always be true lol
most girls go to jerks
or confused themselves thinkin it s a good guy
and some rare girls actually end up hapilly ever after

no offense dude, but u seem like one of those kids who gets his ass kicked in high school like everyday. Plus arent u whining in this topic??? cmon now man.

So, if a lady is like, "pass the salt." Should I be like, "F that ho! You get your own damn salt. Maybe you should go mine that sh*t yourself!"

Thanks for the advice!

wow, you really know how to treat a lady....NOT i think you need to lighten up there dude

its mr nice guy
and dr hyde!

ok here's a scenario

a guy complains about all these guys never finding a girl. lots of whining and a waste of time reading later you look his profile and he states he's never been in a relationship and don't need drama in his life.

i'll tell you what i'd do, i'll tell the b1tch ass to shut the hell up and when he's got some experience with opposite sex then maybe he's got some room to talk.

wow i'm an asshole huh?

i get if you need attention you just go online an post a topic about nice guys getting screwed, i cant help but laugh at stuff like this. i i think il post one

this is true...its always worked this way tho, but in all honesty if a man stands up for himself in the early goings then not only does he gain self respect but he also gains respect from the girl.

If you want to sit back and play victim then do it. If you want to wait until she realizes hey you're a good catch, then be my guest and wait. All I'm suggesting is that you make some changes so you can get that relationship you want, without becoming something you're not.

oh so true

I've been doing it all wrong. Thanks kid!!!

that made no sense.

You might want to redefine some things.

I'm a "nice guy" and try to be a gentleman with the ladies. But you won;t see me "whining" or complaining.

And just because I can be very affectionate to those I care about does not make me any less of a man.

I remember when my son was about 3. we were at the grocery store and he was sitting in the basket and we were in the checkout line. My son and I were laughing and I would tickle him, hug on him and kiss him on his forehead. Some "macho" type right behind me made a comment like "that boys going to grow up to be a woos". I heard the comment, turned to him, in front of everyone there in ine and the cashier (mind you I'm not a big guy physically and this guy was much bigger than me in size) and I said to him "Excuse me, but if you think me loving and showing affection to my son will make him less of a "man" when he get's older, why don;t you and I step out to the parking lot and I'll show you how I will teach him to also be able to stand up for and defend himself"

The redneck shut his mouth and never said another word.

So don't mistake kindness for weakness, nor a "nice guy" to all be "pushovers". I like to think we can be "well rounded" in many facets of life. Just know when to use each.

no, you're not an asshole, you just speak the truth

hey i strived to be an asshole!

stop degrading my dreams!

What I'm trying to say is, I'm tired of hearing guys *****ing about how rough it is for a nice guy. Go look around at some of the other threads.

I know a lot of the singal guys on here have been used and are looking for Mrs. Right.

What I'm saying is stop complaining and change your approach

okay, sorry, you are the biggest asshole i've seen on here so far...lol