Topic: 6 Years Celibit!!
Lil_Mama's photo
Tue 12/11/07 12:01 PM
Been a Single mom of 2, now one is married and out of the house, the other is 17 and going to go to college. Now, its time for me to get back into the swing of things. How do I start?? Where do I start?? Put on a few extra lbs since I last dated, My X has knocked some of my teeth out, so Iam very self concious. HELP

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Tue 12/11/07 12:04 PM
I'm in a similar situation...This is not the best way to do it. There are too many predators on here that wait just to screw your head up...Welcome and have fun though, you will make lots of friends if nothing else flowerforyou

azrae1l's photo
Tue 12/11/07 12:06 PM
oh come now, most of us are not predators or wanting to screw with anybody's head.

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Tue 12/11/07 12:08 PM
laugh laugh laugh True...but there are a handful...remember the married guy last night, with his wife coming on with a made up profile? I've noticed quite a bit of that game playing going on

azrae1l's photo
Tue 12/11/07 12:09 PM
yeah that does happen, but it happens alot more often in the real world. personally i gave up on "finding" anybody, when it happens it happens. i'm just here to amuse myself

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Tue 12/11/07 12:11 PM
Best way to be I suppose...just wish i had learnt that earlier instead of falling for clap trap from the first dashing prince that came my way....Hopeless Romantic to the end sad

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Tue 12/11/07 12:12 PM

Been a Single mom of 2, now one is married and out of the house, the other is 17 and going to go to college. Now, its time for me to get back into the swing of things. How do I start?? Where do I start?? Put on a few extra lbs since I last dated, My X has knocked some of my teeth out, so Iam very self concious. HELP


Your not getting an awful lot of advice from us are you? Sorry flowerforyou

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Tue 12/11/07 12:21 PM

SHOOT!
what married guy with the fake profiler wife?



The married guy was real so was the wife, she had caught him out dating women from this site...and came on as a honey pot...

Lil_Mama's photo
Tue 12/11/07 01:16 PM
flowerforyou Thanks to all of you!! I guess at least I'll be amused!!:smile:

fortsmithman's photo
Sat 12/15/07 06:52 PM
Hi and welcome to JSH

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 12/15/07 07:07 PM
hey lil mama,
teeth can be replaced ,glad you got out.i've been celibate myself with a seven year old keeping me busy...Just be yourself and try to dodge the weirdos.like real life !!welcome to jshdrinker

LAMom's photo
Sat 12/15/07 07:20 PM
Kuddo's to you for getting out,,, It took me a long time before I was able to find the courage to get out,,, I can say enjoy you and love you,,, when the time is right a real man who loves all of you will find his way to your soul,,,

Merry Christmas to you flowerforyou

Enjoy the site so many people to meet,,, incredible friendships will bond

photogirl's photo
Sun 12/30/07 12:11 PM
Edited by photogirl on Sun 12/30/07 12:14 PM
Take the X to court and have the jerk pay for your dental work.
Start walking or do some type of exercise that you enjoy.
This should help make you feel better about yourself and a lot less self conscious.

hikerchick's photo
Sun 12/30/07 12:53 PM
Lil-Mama - I was celibate for at least 6 years after my divorce - I had a child to raise, no time for nonsense. Then I fell in love by accident; and when that went down in flames I became celibate again. I don't think it is a big deal. Sex is not something you should do just to do, you know? Life ebbs and flows and opportunities and relationships come and go. Just keep being your wonderful self and something wonderful will happen for you.


Shaden's photo
Fri 01/04/08 01:33 AM
I say kudos to you. You've shown great discipline. If your looks are a hinderence in your eyes I've heard there are free dental clinics, various places. Try calling around. Also exercise will help your body and mind. Sorry you had just a bad ex. Small weights (8 lbs.)will help change your body shape rather quickly that coupled with just walking in front of the t.v.