Topic: SHOULD I ...............?
Enya's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:10 PM
NO ONE EVER GIVES ME A CARD OR GIFT.
EXCEPT MY 1 NIECE AND 2 KIDS.
SO,SHOULD I KEEP BUYING THE OTHERS GIFTS AND CARDS? huh

dance_momma's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:12 PM
its not about what you get, its about giving. You shouldn't have to give presents because you feel obligated but because you want to.

813punk's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:12 PM
Christmas is overrated. Everyone gets really greedy and the spirt and fun of it is gone. I dont get anyone anything and i dont expect anything from anyone.

singingmyheartout's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:12 PM
It's not about what you GET in return...

How does giving make you feel?
And maybe, if you are feeling unappreciated by the people you are buying gifts for... perhaps make a donation to a charity in their honor... that way, your efforts will be appreciated by SOMEONE, even if the recipient is unappreciative.flowerforyou

scotty1964's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:14 PM
ahh i maybe so if it makes you feel good.Its never about what other people do or say to me I try to not take things personal.
Its about what I do and how I feel about me thats important. So if you fell good giving then do itflowerforyou

no photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:14 PM

NO ONE EVER GIVES ME A CARD OR GIFT.
EXCEPT MY 1 NIECE AND 2 KIDS.
SO,SHOULD I KEEP BUYING THE OTHERS GIFTS AND CARDS? huh


Hmm interesting question.

I'm fortunate, I have a very close group of friends and family. If its a one time type of miss, then consider something might have happened and its about giving anyway. But if you have sent a card for 10 years without getting even a thank you back..takem off the list, its obvious they don;t care.

I'll send you a card..just tell me where! bigsmile

expired's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:15 PM

its not about what you get, its about giving. You shouldn't have to give presents because you feel obligated but because you want to.


i was going to say that exactly. thank you. it is about giving and not expecting, keep doing the right thing:wink:

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:15 PM
its tha spirit of giving

jvc534's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:15 PM
I'll buy you a gift Enya flowerforyou

Enya's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:17 PM
:heart: I FELL GREAT GIVING GIFTS:heart:
BUT,THEY DON'T COME GET EM` TIL LATER.
MAYBE CAUSE MOST OF THEM DON'T CELEBRATE THE HOLIDAYS
ANYMORE.huh

nuenjins's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:18 PM
Love must be sincere. Do what your heart tells you, not out of guilt.:smile: :wink: :heart:




Nice to see you Enya. I was 'here' the day before your surgery and was worried and praying. Thank God you are here with us.:heart:

Enya's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:21 PM

I'll buy you a gift Enya flowerforyou

THANKS SWEETY, BUT A SIMPLE GREETING WILL DO.:heart:

Countrycowgirls514's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:23 PM
You know.. I kind of felt that way this year.. so instead I donated a bunch of gifts to local shelter and womens homes and I am giving a full christmas dinner to two families in the area instead of giving gifts to the family and friends

Enya's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:28 PM

You know.. I kind of felt that way this year.. so instead I donated a bunch of gifts to local shelter and womens homes and I am giving a full christmas dinner to two families in the area instead of giving gifts to the family and friends

:heart: WOW:heart:
THAT'S VERY NICE OF YOU!
I CAN'T DRIVE ANYMORE THOUGH.

jvc534's photo
Tue 12/11/07 09:35 PM


I'll buy you a gift Enya flowerforyou

THANKS SWEETY, BUT A SIMPLE GREETING WILL DO.:heart:


Ok I'll send ya an e-card or something.:smile: