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Topic: Single Mothers
Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚 Joined Tue 04/02/19 Posts: 5312	Tue 10/08/19 09:21 AM
I think the OP needs pitied more than ridiculed, coming off with such chit tbh..

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Tue 10/08/19 09:26 AM
I've been getting flack about my rejection of single mothers for anything long term (I'll likely get flack here too) from (you guessed it) SINGLE MOTHERS. It's not simple disapproval either, it's vicious and hostile, and if there weren't a child restraining their actions, I'm certain they'd get violent. ...but I'm still not wrong. Single Mothers, This is REALITY: 1: EVERY man sees you as "used goods" that comes with an extra burden that was the result of your poor judgement when you chose to breed with someone you had no intention of staying with. 2: When you make excuses (He was psycho and abusive, etc.) it only reinforces the notion that you have EXTREMELY poor judgement. I get that your lot in life sucks, but speaking as someone who's educated, literate, employed, healthy, and productive, I think this sets me above 98% of the males on here, and thus gives me the standing to say "you don't make the grade". It's my right to do so, and getting mad at me for your mistakes only serves to prove that point. I GET TO BE PICKY. You don't. (Begin outrage now) And does your wife know you're on a dating site and seeking a long term relationship? Hmmm...... I didn't read his profile... WOW!!!! You'd think he'd be more concerned with his wife suddenly turning violent!

Unknow Joined Tue 04/21/15 Posts: 247	Tue 10/08/19 10:04 AM
The man sounds a bit of a DING DING !!!

premierblue Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 361	Tue 10/08/19 03:45 PM
What's the use of op being educated when his mindset is still stuck in the 19th century!!!

Bastet127 Joined Wed 06/12/19 Posts: 967	Tue 10/08/19 05:40 PM
You’re entitled to your opinion. As am I. Your moral code is looking right back at you in the mirror.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21250	Tue 10/08/19 06:02 PM
1: EVERY man sees you as "used goods" that comes with an extra burden that was the result of your poor judgement when you chose to breed with someone you had no intention of staying with. No. But, I am wondering how much meth you had to smoke, to draw the conclusion, that you're smart enough to think for ALL men.

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Tue 10/08/19 06:12 PM Edited by mzrosie on Tue 10/08/19 06:25 PM


Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Wed 10/09/19 05:03 AM


SpaceCodet Joined Sat 07/27/19 Posts: 632	Wed 10/09/19 07:58 AM
Everything is lollipops and rainbows, boy-o. Only respectable women who had the misfortune of being widowed or divorced are single mothers. That other chunk of the female population doesn't exist. Reality is how you feel about things and nothing to do with reason. Reason is "problematic" that's why SoCrates had to be canceled so the fake world can exist along with their fake words. Don't y'know? https://youtu.be/w5Fgp-KihIA

Danny Joined Wed 10/09/19 Posts: 9	Wed 10/09/19 12:28 PM
Hi! Cute smile.

Izzyecares4luv316 Joined Tue 10/13/15 Posts: 1	Thu 10/10/19 01:36 AM
Hi beautiful

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚 Joined Tue 04/02/19 Posts: 5312	Thu 10/10/19 01:38 AM
Thanks guys, but I like females..xx

QueenJanice Joined Mon 12/11/17 Posts: 79	Thu 10/10/19 03:58 AM
Hahahha

QueenJanice Joined Mon 12/11/17 Posts: 79	Thu 10/10/19 03:59 AM
1: EVERY man sees you as "used goods" that comes with an extra burden that was the result of your poor judgement when you chose to breed with someone you had no intention of staying with. No. But, I am wondering how much meth you had to smoke, to draw the conclusion, that you're smart enough to think for ALL men. Nice one Sir...

Mike6615 Joined Sun 09/18/16 Posts: 1508	Thu 10/10/19 07:41 PM
I think you have problems that began long ago...none that we can help you with. You need some counseling NOW.

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚 Joined Tue 04/02/19 Posts: 5312	Fri 10/11/19 01:30 AM


Juks Joined Fri 08/30/19 Posts: 29	Fri 10/11/19 12:15 PM
I am looking for a single dad aswell. That way we can relate.

Halo94 Joined Sat 10/12/19 Posts: 1	Sun 10/13/19 10:30 AM
I'm a single mother to a 5 yr old lovely little boy. And it's honestly BOYS like you, that made me give up on the dating thing. They view a child,; which is one of the biggest blessings you could ever have in my eyes, as "baggage". There is no greater thing then the love of a child. And I feel like it's even more so when that child is not yours and they love and accept you like you are their parent. Unfortunately I chose a guy who did not stick around. Did I think he was going to do that? Heck no. But he did. And it actually was for the better. Looking back, the relationship was toxic. Why would I make my child endure that? I wouldn't and won't. I have a full time career, my own house, my own car and I pay all my bills BY MYSELF. and on top of that, I'm raising a little MAN by myself. Yes, there are some moms that fall short of their duties, but you can not simple lump ALL single moms into a "bad mom" Category based off of a few. I know plenty of single momst hat get **** done and hold down the fort on there own; myself included. Maybe you're just threatened by the fact that we don't NEED a man? good luck to you sir.

delightfulillusion Joined Fri 06/24/16 Posts: 119332	Sun 10/13/19 10:37 AM
I'm a single mother to a 5 yr old lovely little boy. And it's honestly BOYS like you, that made me give up on the dating thing. They view a child,; which is one of the biggest blessings you could ever have in my eyes, as "baggage". There is no greater thing then the love of a child. And I feel like it's even more so when that child is not yours and they love and accept you like you are their parent. Unfortunately I chose a guy who did not stick around. Did I think he was going to do that? Heck no. But he did. And it actually was for the better. Looking back, the relationship was toxic. Why would I make my child endure that? I wouldn't and won't. I have a full time career, my own house, my own car and I pay all my bills BY MYSELF. and on top of that, I'm raising a little MAN by myself. Yes, there are some moms that fall short of their duties, but you can not simple lump ALL single moms into a "bad mom" Category based off of a few. I know plenty of single momst hat get **** done and hold down the fort on there own; myself included. Maybe you're just threatened by the fact that we don't NEED a man? good luck to you sir. Well said!

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚 Joined Tue 04/02/19 Posts: 5312	Sun 10/13/19 10:39 AM
I'm a single mother to a 5 yr old lovely little boy. And it's honestly BOYS like you, that made me give up on the dating thing. They view a child,; which is one of the biggest blessings you could ever have in my eyes, as "baggage". There is no greater thing then the love of a child. And I feel like it's even more so when that child is not yours and they love and accept you like you are their parent. Unfortunately I chose a guy who did not stick around. Did I think he was going to do that? Heck no. But he did. And it actually was for the better. Looking back, the relationship was toxic. Why would I make my child endure that? I wouldn't and won't. I have a full time career, my own house, my own car and I pay all my bills BY MYSELF. and on top of that, I'm raising a little MAN by myself. Yes, there are some moms that fall short of their duties, but you can not simple lump ALL single moms into a "bad mom" Category based off of a few. I know plenty of single momst hat get **** done and hold down the fort on there own; myself included. Maybe you're just threatened by the fact that we don't NEED a man? good luck to you sir. Yes well said.. Single moms rock..