when you break up it really hurts,kinda like seeking something in another,and it aint there.I tried for a year with this real sexy 39 year old,and got dumpted when a better sugar daddy came along,guess thats just marketing!!!

OUCH!

Well welcome to JSH!

Hope you find someone that is'nt looking for a sugar daddy
next time... Goodluck! And Yes love hurts...

I'm sorry that happened to you, it's awful. It's to bad that there are people like that out there.

Yes it does..but it will get better..good luck to ya..

Ouch! And that's an UNDERSTATEMENT!

Sorry to hear you have to endure such a thing.

sorry about your loss...welcome

Well first of all, my friend, hats off to you for landing the sexy younger lady to begin with! You did mention the term sugar daddy, and maybe you were joking, but if you weren't, those gold digger types tend to always be on the lookout for the next free ride.

I've had some mild success as a real estate investor and I can tell you first hand that the true gold digger is a wolf in sheeps clothing! lol. Just watch for red flags, and pay no mind to your mini-me's objections as most of them are quite attractive! lol.

I did see your profile and I'm very sorry for the loss of your wife. I can't speak to that from experience, but my mother lost my father when I was 10 and she had a hard time coping. However, she found a wonderful man who came from a similar situation (via the internet, ironically enough) who she's been with for 12 years and who treats her (and the rest of the family) like gold. She lucked out twice, so it does happen. Keep on keeping on my man, it'll happen to you too!

Good luck!!

i know its a hurting thing.but we all been burned at sometime.chalk it up as a lesson learned.love can be much better the second time around

Don't worry, Phil Donahue, I'm sure things will pick up for you.

You must be from Florida.......

Every time a relationship ends for me, there is always someone who says, "it will happen for me" or "your time will come". But, it never does, I just keep getting burned and I am sick of it and sick of all the promises. I am starting to think that maybe there really is no one for me. Is that possible?

I was not trying to take away from your well wishes and good words for this man. He looks like a good guy and he will probably get someone actually better than this gold digger.

I am an honest, loving, sincere person and I am constantly getting burned. Ironically usually from the ones that say they are honest or promise me the world. I am pretty fed up with it all. don't promise me things if you are not going to deliver. It is like saying you are going to call when you have no intention, just don't say it. I mean how many times can one bounce back. I am sick of being lonely. and I am sick of trying. Sorry, didn't mean to go on about it.

KTS, you actually had me laughing quite hard with the Phil Donahue comment. Thanks for that! I sure needed it.

Yes remember every b*#$% looking for a sugar daddy will have no real life or skills because a sugar daddy will always go for a younger model in the end.

Why do men feel the need to call women bytches? First of all, not all women are looking for sugar daddies! I bet half of the women here make more money then some of the men...so honestly, you guys need to stop calling the women bytches!!

Maybe it's time to take a long look at your choices in men. Making the same mistake over and over will not help you be successful at love. Loving yourself first, being content with the person you are or making changes to be the person you want to be are key to being successful in a relationship.

In his defense he said every b*#$% looking for a sugar daddy and although it is very true that most women are not b*#$%es.... anyone looking for a sugar daddy is and I have no sympathy for them.

also doesn't matter how much you make, you can still be looking for a sugar daddy to make things better. My ex made plenty but still looked for me to pay for everything so her/his income doesn't have anything to do with it.

I have actually done the things you mentioned. I even get told what a wonderful person I am. Ironically, from the last one that broke my heart, but he had his own issues and agenda. I guess maybe I should quit trying and stay off the computer, cause it is actually making me feel worse, sometimes. Except for now when I am getting some support. Thanks by the way, I appreciate it.

You are most welcome. I have been single for almost 13 years with one serious relationship in that time which ended 8 years ago. I would like to find someone but have found the harder I tried the worse I felt. So I will continue to advertise myself and hope for the best.

Find a woman who appreciates what you have to offer...not what your bank account has to offer. You deserve someone who will love you for you who are...not leave you for the next guy with more money.

Hmm... I wonder if being a golddigger is a personality disorder... hey maybe that could be my thesis or something