There are some who are separated and kids live with the mother? I want to get anyone's opinion, about dating woman with kids.

Does it matter to you guys dating a woman that has 3 kids raising by herself?

No cause people are not determined on the basis of kids and all if you like someone or wanna date someone accept them in every situation my pov.

It really depends upon the situation, the person, and the kids' reactions.
I wouldn't mind dating a woman who had children as long as she doesn't try to make me assume all the duties of the father such as financial support. If I decide to help out, it should be when I want to and how much.
It also depends on the how the children react. Some children are resentful and commit acts of sabotage to the relationship.

hi joy how are you

(Sorry, Di ...)

Joy, my mom became a widow at 46 with 4 kids to raise by herself. I remember her always saying something more or less like this: if you claim to love the tree then you must love the branches!

If she likes raising goats, that fine with me.

I like goats.

They are kind of silly billys

Heyy every one , im looking for serious women who want relationship , contact me.

Yes it's very good.
I'm dating with a woman having 3 children.

Yes it's very good.
I'm dating with a woman having 3 children.

it's really very good and well matured men will take care of that women and should take care of there children.. I am really very happy to be a part of that family and if any one are real and interested..
can ping me directly

There's a difference between 'dating' and 'having an intimate relationship'.

For dating, I think the 'kids' should be at home or with a sitter. I also think if a woman is on a date with me she should be in the moment 'here' not 'there'.

If her kids are the only subject she will talk or think about on our date, that date...to me is a 'fail'.

Once committed to a relationship, part of that relationship involves accepting the whole person.
Children are part of who we are so accepting her children is part of the relationship with her.

In the natural animal kingdom, males often remove the offspring to bring the female back into heat.
From killing and eating them to chasing them away or ignoring their needs.

Civilized humans often act in contrast to natural behavior. Often it is integrity, responsibility and commitment which brings the female back into heat. Accepting responsibility for another's offspring has positive results.

The problem is humans also display different degrees of natural behavior and have the capacity to lie and 'act' to get a result.

"Sometimes" a male might say or act as if her children are important. They appear to accept responsibility for another's children to gain favor and acceptance from the female. Once she is 'under the spell' the integrity, dedication and respect fall away and responsibility is shucked.

If I were someone with children dating, I would be extremely wary of anyone claiming to instantly accept the responsibility of my family. That kind of trust must be earned with experience.
However, if I am just going on a 'date', children will be the last thing I'll focus on. The 'date' is not the 'relationship'.

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