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Topic: Relationship advice for a 23 year old single dad
Yvngmanning Joined Thu 03/28/24 Posts: 3	Thu 03/28/24 10:18 AM
Let me hear your thoughts

cosmic Joined Fri 04/14/17 Posts: 2	Fri 03/29/24 02:17 AM
Make sure your partner aligns with your goals and what your soul wants in life, where you want to be and how you want to live. Astrology charts can also help show your direction, if interested.

JulieABush Joined Thu 01/26/17 Posts: 3161	Fri 03/29/24 03:24 AM
Your child should be your top priority when looking for a partner. She should include your child in the plans you make together so they don’t felt left out.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14417	Tue 04/02/24 12:26 PM
Julie is giving good Advice. There are so many children that get neglected by parents for their personal reasons.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14417	Tue 04/02/24 12:26 PM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Tue 04/02/24 12:29 PM
Many single parents over the last 40 decades in America. Serious relationships have been steadily decreasing.

JulieABush Joined Thu 01/26/17 Posts: 3161	Tue 04/02/24 12:45 PM
Thank you Toodygirl5. I would always try to include the child or children in one way or another by getting to know them and see what they like to do and then make the plans around them. Funny how I can give such advice when I don’t have any children of my own but any good single parent should make a point to any of them looking for a partner that their child/children are their top priority and thus that partner would know so and feel obligated to include them.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14417	Tue 04/02/24 01:31 PM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Tue 04/02/24 01:32 PM
You are right IMO you do not have to have children to know what is best for them. The OP is "separated" and sometimes it causes a problem with the ex if she doesn't want her child around any other women. That may be a problem for some people. Just saying.....

JulieABush Joined Thu 01/26/17 Posts: 3161	Wed 04/03/24 03:31 AM
My cousin got attacked by her husbands ex but what came of it after that I’m not sure. All I know my cousin is fine and her husband must of stood up for her and maybe got a restraining order but in all he’s a really good guy. Sorry to say I prefer a guy without kids so I don’t have to deal with an ex since you never know what state of mind they can be in no matter what terms you left in.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14417	Wed 04/03/24 05:45 AM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 04/03/24 05:46 AM
Julie, that is great your cousin's husband stood up for her because oftentimes that causes a lot of problems in marriages. There are many couples out there with those problems.

JulieABush Joined Thu 01/26/17 Posts: 3161	Wed 04/03/24 12:52 PM
That could be why my cousins husband left his 1st wife in the first place due to emotional problems.

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