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Topic: Why do women never approach men?
jtitol Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 5396	Mon 02/11/08 04:17 PM
they always expect the man to make the 1st move and he might be exactly who they want but since he didnt make the move u let him go. It doesnt make any sense????

Elizabeth98999 Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 393	Mon 02/11/08 04:18 PM
I make the first move sometimes.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 02/11/08 04:18 PM
YUM YUM

erowid1 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 1029	Mon 02/11/08 04:19 PM
in my experiance, they do

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Mon 02/11/08 04:19 PM
LOL...ummm NOT TRUE! I have had more women than guys make the first move on me out here! (its a Cali joke folks)

suzyQ41 Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 1081	Mon 02/11/08 04:20 PM
If I waited for a man to come get me, I would never get any......

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 02/11/08 04:20 PM
they always expect the man to make the 1st move and he might be exactly who they want but since he didnt make the move u let him go. It doesnt make any sense???? Women do approach men. It depends on the women and situation. Alot of times women don't make the first move, because it's generally the mans job to make the first move. They do not want to seem "slutty" or desperate if they approach him first.

h_dubbaya Joined Mon 01/07/08 Posts: 136	Mon 02/11/08 04:20 PM
women like being persued

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 02/11/08 04:20 PM
Women making the first move!! that would be kinda cool, although I have had more women Email me than I them...

laughsandgiggles Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 3560	Mon 02/11/08 04:21 PM
I have no problem making the first move- i guess it just depends on the personality of the woman.

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Mon 02/11/08 04:21 PM
i didnt have to ask a lady out til i was 40...plenty of assertive chickys out there.

Naugachomp Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 936	Mon 02/11/08 04:21 PM
Isn’t it all about having and keeping the power over the other person?

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Mon 02/11/08 04:22 PM
Sometimes, we give a little nudge to the guy (if interested). I am old fashioned and prefer the guy to make his move. But, this is a new generation. A woman's got to do what a man's supposed to do.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 02/11/08 04:22 PM
Isn’t it all about having and keeping the power over the other person? Play on playa

nikkimnr00 Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 33	Mon 02/11/08 04:22 PM
I went up 2 a guy on Saturday, it caught him so off guard he refused to dance. Makes me think twice about it next time.

ddanster Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 185	Mon 02/11/08 04:22 PM
It's like Eliane said on a Seinfield Episode..Women put the trash out and take for granted that someone will pick it up. It should be 50/50..or at least she should give ya some strong hints that she's interested instead of leaving it up to us all the time.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 02/11/08 04:23 PM
It is 2008 right ? or at least it was the last time I checked. I never get any woman going after me etc, I guess I'm not good looking enough or something, not famous not a rock n role star, not some Brad Pit or Will Smith or who ever. I'm just me. I guess that isn't good enough.

SexyLibra69 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 4	Mon 02/11/08 04:23 PM
Not true papi, if I feel like he or she is worth my while, I will definitely make a move. Life is too short after all, there is no time to be that shy! Much love to everyone on here & don't wait go for it if you're feelin it! besos !

JoAnnS Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 30	Mon 02/11/08 04:23 PM
I have no problem making the first move. I dont think it really matters who makes the first move.

beaporwoll Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 201	Mon 02/11/08 04:24 PM
women like being persued bingo